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he has a girlfriend..but kinda flirts with me?..
hey! well im 15/f
and allright so ive been having boy troubles lately..i was kinda crushin a little bit on this guy and we were flirtin alot until i find out he just got a girlfriend so that went down then drain and now i feel like i cant flirt with him anymore. so i just sit there but he kinda still flirts with me! i mean i spilt somethin on my shorts lol and so i was changin into my boxer shorts in my friends room and i guess he told my friends sister to open the door and pull down the towel i had because supposively he wanted to see my ass and i dont know i didnt start flirting with him because i backed off since i found out he had a girlfriend but he still kinda flirts with me! he is so adorable and sweet and we can have such good talks and i was talkin to him on AIM and hes like jokin around sayin ohh didnt this boy look sexy today and i was like haha real funny! and hes like just kidding but we'll find you a boy dont worry. hes just sooo sweet!! but he really likes this girl and i guess has liked her for awhile but then why does he do this with me?! and like for stuff on AIM or whatever hes always like i love you lindsey?!
soo im just so confused...
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I say let him know stop playing with my emotions. Be the aggresser, remind him he has a girlfriend. Tell him your not going to be the other chick. If he likes her tell him to stop flirting with you because thats not helping the situation of you having feelngs for him.
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If he is like that, you do not want to be the other girl. I know you like him, but you probably do not want the wrath of Lindsey upon you, because the girlfriend usually gets P.O.ed if she finds out who her man is flirting with, and it's usually at the girl, and not her boy. And think of it this way. If he was your bf, and he was flirting with Lindsey, even if she wasn't flirting back, would you be angry? Chances are you would look over the "adorable and sweet" boy if he was flirting with another girl. So if I were you, I would have nothing to do with him, try not to talk to him. I know it's painful now, but you'll be doing Lindsey a favor. Hope that helps!
Alice
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I had kinda the same problem, i thought my boyfriend was flirting with his ex so i kinda freaked out at him and then i realized that is how he acts with every girl..so i think that is what this guy is doing to u, he dosnt consider what hes doing 'flirting'. lots of people have different opinions on flirting so his is probly different. im not saying to flirt with him again because his girlfriend might get the wrong idea, like i did. but he is probly going to keep doing this if he dosnt think its flirting, maybe you should let him know that you think he is flirting with you. Good luck and i hope i helped!
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in my opinion i think you hould stop flirting with him since he has a girlfriend and he knoews that you know and since you still flirt with him he may think that to you it does not matter that he has a girlfriend. he may think you will always be going after him trying to flirt..
I advice you to stop flirting with him.
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well you know i have a friend.. and he does the same thing but he admits to just "messing with the girls head cause its funny" so joke around with him.. cause he does have a girlfriend so technically he cant LOVE you in that way you know? sometimes people dont realize how flirty they are.. maybe hes one of those.
you never know what could happen (:
good luck!
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oh.. well honey he is like a best friend. from what im reading hes not fliting with you. hes kidding around with you. i mean if hes tryin to see your butt then idk bout that. but everything else you can tell its a best friends relationship. message me back with more info. if you want
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Big no no. if he has a girlfriend steer clear of that crap. if he's saying this to you, you must think of the facts, he may be saying it to someone else too! Just because he says he loves you doesn't mean he actually means it. I know this is mean to say but it could be true. Ask him straight out. "If you love me why are you with her? Dump her if you really love me cause I don't wanna be second best." simple as that. If he gets pissed at you? he wasn't worth the gum on your shoe ;-P
Kris.
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