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boy troubles..
so there is this one guy!! and he is really really cute and seems really funny. ive always had my eye on him since like winter but ive never talked to him because i didnt know how to approach him. well a couple nights ago he I/M my friend and said somethin but she was gone so i was like this is kristen ..shelly is upstairs so then hes like asking me all these questions like what school do you go to..do you know these people? and hes like are you hot? lol and im like uhh..and so my friends brother goes up on his computer and shows him my myspace link and i guess this guy was like shes "aight" soo that kinda lowered my confidence but then i was like wait you play on this baseball team right? and hes like yeah and i was like yeah i was at your game tonight! and hes like yeah we suck but im the catcher..and im like ohh you did good! and then hes like yeah but i got to go take a shower so then he left and i was like allright cya. and how can i somehow talk to him again? i wish he would get my screename from someone and I/M me first because that way i would know he was interested or whatever! i mean ive had my eye on him forever and now i finally got to talk to him! i dont want to request him on myspace or I/M him first because i dont want to feel like a stalker or like him being i dont really even know you?...ive talked to you only once?..
i just dont know! do you guys have any suggestions? and i guess that he doesnt really talk to my friend much they dont hangout at all so i dont think she could help me!
also im so shy and always worried of what people think of me...i know i shouldnt i wish i wouldnt but i cant help it! thats why i dont want to approach him first. but lately this kid is all i can think of!? hes kinda popular so i dont know if he would go for me..since he said im "aight" looking..but i think i could maybe get him by my personality or something??
thanks so much.
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You could have your friend give him your SN or have him request you as a friend on myspace. But if he's only gonna want you for your looks, he's not worth it. But it seems you guys had a great convo going, and so maybe if you could muster up the courage to IM him first(just a simple "hi" will do) I'm sure you guys would be talking in no time. Also, to keep convos going longer, you could research a little about baseball, like if his fave team is the Yankees, find out the player's names and positions and stuff like that. Hope that helps!
Alice
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The next time your friend does talk to him then have her say somthing to him like, "so what did you think about kristen?" thats kinda the only thing i can think of since you dont want to add him on myspace or i/m him, but if u did he probly wouldnt think your a stalker just tell him that your bored and someone gave you his email or somthing like that. and you could definetly get him by your personality, if he only cares about looks then hes no good..well i hope i helped!
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you know what you could do? if you have friends who are friends with him, hang out with them when he is around and have your friends introduce you to him. have them say something like, "Yeah, this is Kristen (is that your name?), she talked to you online that one night." or something like that. I used to be shy too, but I don't let it phase me. Guys like girls who are a little open and not too shy. You can be coy, but don't be shy. You have no reason to! Good Luck!
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yeah defintely add him as your friend. and put effort out to talk to him. but dont express how you feel about him until you guys talk a few times.. but leave him a comment and be like "hey it was cool talking to you the other night, we should hang out sometime" theres honestly no harm in that.. and he cant be like "oh dude she likes me" cause he doesnt know much about you.
good luck dear (:
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ok so request him on myspace let him know your intrested. but maybe he should IM you first. guys wont see you as a stalker even if you IM them first or rquest them on myspace. but anyways.. in your about me on myspace mayeb if its ok with you put your s/n in it.nit really doesnt matter if i were you id request him and IM first. lol do whatever you feel is right to do
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you should ask your friend to get the IM from her brother and then get her to big you up to him. If he does like you it won't take much for her to do so, if he doesn't like you then I'm sorry, but I'm sure you'll find someone.
In relation to shyness. it's the internet. act yourself and no one could hate that. Act as if you are talking to a friend!
It'll be easier then
Kris.
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