Member Since: June 29, 2006
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Last Update: June 29, 2006
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My Mom and my Dad havent been on talking terms since i was 5, and my mom somehow blames it on me. She acts like i have owe my entire life to her, where as she doesnt even treat me right, being only 19 now, i really dont know how to deal with her. She is unhappy because of my Father who doesnt care about her, cos she hasnt been the best wife to him, since she keeps bitching about my father to every second person she meets, she says shes unhappy cos of him and blames everyone else for all her mistakes and refuses to accept the truth. She makes the silliest things into the biggest issues ever and makes my life living hell. She blames her missery on everyone around her, and she doesnt realise that shes making herself miserable. She needs help and refuses to go see a shrink. I really dont know what to do.. It's driving me insane. I've tried talking to her and telling her how i feel but she doesnt seem to be botherd.
According to her she never does anything wrong, and the way i feel means nothing to her. I cant think of anything else. Sometimes i wish i could just die.. (link)
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Woah, Are you sure you're not being raised by my Mother's clone?? I grew up with the exact same Mom as you! Okay, advice from a "wise old sage" of 42, that had to learn everything the hard way...
Your Mother is completely self-centered and selfish. Sure, she may make it sound like she's making all kinds of sacrifices for you, but is she really? She's acting like the "perpetual victim". I bet that before she married your Dad, she blamed her parents for all kinds of horrible things too, right?
Oh, man I could go on and on. Get away as quickly as you can. See your own therapist-if you can't afford it, sign up for state aid. Take care of yourself first and foremost, don't waste years like I did. Go online and look up Narcissistic Personality Disorder. If she blames others for her problems, has no empathy for you, and has to be dramatic to get the attention she craves--your Momma's probably got it. You'll have to learn (like I am now), how to insulate yourself from her to keep damage to a minimum.
Don't go getting suicidal, you're gonna be okay, AND that would just give her someone else to blame for more problems, right??
Chin Up!
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How bad is weed for you?
I smoke like.. maybe once every 2 months.. sometimes from a pipe.. and sometimes from a can.. how bad is this for you? I dont even think I get high when I do it though.. How do you know when youre high? (link)
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You probably aren't getting high if you only smoke weed once every 2 months. I found that it took some "regular" usage for me to get high. Now for some bad news-my Mom smokes cigarettes and weed, my daughter smokes cigarettes and weed, and I gave up smoking weed over 20 years ago, but still smoke ciggies. My Daughter who is only 22, has a chronic cough all day long, and wakes up hacking so bad, that I say things to her like "hey have another bong hit, sounds like its doing great for you." My Mom has lung disease officially now, and a smokers hack since I can remember. Myself-no cough at all, but I have also been an "on and off" smoker.
Smoking weed is horrible for your lungs!
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