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My boyfriend is moving to another country....
My boyfriend is going to another country to be with his family. We've been together for just 4 months and i don't know if our relationship's worth keeping or not.
Please help me!
P.S.
I'm fifteen years old, by the way.
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Im about to go through something very similar. At such a young age you should focus on studying and getting a good job and that. Thats what Im gonna do anyways. You dont want someone, who you may love, to distract you. It would also be very hard on your relationship. You have the rest of your life ahead of you. you wont like to hear it, i know, but the best thing is to end it before he leaves. you never know if you will see him again or not.
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my bf is leaving to go to italy nd europe in a month or two. i live in new zealand and we could not get further away. i am in the same suttution as you nd have no idae how to take it. im so cut up.. love hurts and i dnt wana tell you advice that sounds lame or like its going to work but just so you know it happens and possibly we just have to move on. reply if you want to. luv ya xxxx
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Well to be honest i don't even know why you're in a relationship now? i mean, c'mon your 15. You really shouldn't be in one, you should be concerned with school and homework. Really relationships ar't the answer now. sorry to be the blunt one, but it's ture. Girls who're in relationships now will end up ruling their lives and hurt later. I should know, happen to friends and sorta changed em. Hope this helps
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If you're not sure, you should probably agree to just be friends. There's no telling when he'll be back (maybe never) and by maintaining a long distance relationship you'll be missing out on experiences and lessons you'd learn from other possible relationships. Agree to send e-mails, but don't pledge to be exclusive, it'll just make you miserable.
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If you question whether it's worth it or not, that might be a sign.
Talk to him about it and see how he feels. It's gonna be a two way thing.
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hey, well four months isnt that long. but it depends on how strong your four month relationship with that guy was. if you cant go a day without talking to him/ seeing him then you know hes the one for you. that means you should try out the long distance relationship with him. its really all up to you and you shouldnt be asking us advicenators this question. follow your heart and do what YOU think is right, not what i or any other advicenator thinks is right. cait♥
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well, it depends. I would break it off with him because you never know you might just get back together later if he comes back. I dont know if you believe in lond distance relationships but i have heard its pretty hard. Yeah, you can talk on the phone and on AIM etc., but thats not the same as going out and having fun with him in person. For your sake i think tou should tell him that you dont know if it will work out and that i think you both should just move on and that you still wanna be good friends
hope i help, and good luck hun
♥kailyn
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all i can say if he leaving...you will have to move on...if its meant to be ya'll will end up back together...ya'll only went out for 4 months its not like ya'll out for years or so....sorry baby but its not worth keeping..long distance relationship don't work...my ex live 5 minutes away and we broke up of long distance...lol...funny isn't it...but you will find somebody else trust me...and when you do e-mail me...HOLLA!!!!!!!!!
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Oh my that must be really hard on you. What I suggest you doing is to keep in contact alot. Does he have IM MSN Yahoo or email? If so talk to him on that and be sure to write him and talk to him on the phone when possible. Distant relationships can be hard on both people. Try your best to make it work and if you know you can keep the relationship going then you CAN. But if it gets too hard and pressuring then be sure to still be friends. Because you never know. Sometimes miracles do happen in these situations.
Hope everything works out well
X0 EM
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dear another country..
the only thing i can tell you is you can`t really rely on what other people have to say to you about this one. we don`t know how you feel for him. (do you love him?) and if so, is the love strong enough for yall to stay together? then you also have to think will you beable to really go with out seeing him? hope i helped =]
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well its never easy but if you dont think a long distance relationship is going to work. then tell him but make a point to stay in contact n b m8s hope it helps kim x
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hey. you are in a sticky situation here. but what i would do is just tell him that you dont think that a long distance relationship will work out, although you still want to continue being friends. you can get eachothers addresses and emails so you guys can keep in contact. just follow your heart. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥
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hey
this can be a hard situation. its like when school ends and you wont see your friends and boyfriend everyday. usually, if you care about him a lot, you will know if you want to keep the relationship going. i will probably break up with my boyfriend over the summer (and we've been going out for 7 months! so its kind of a big deal). personally, i dont want to take risks like if he meets a new person or if i meet a new person. it will be difficult to keep in touch if you dont break up but i think you should talk it out with him and see how he feels about it. if he agrees, just be friends for a while and then see whats going on after the four months.
i hope everything works out alright!
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