Hi, i`m Kayla. I do my best at giving advice. I love to answer love life questions. I know alot about that because i`ve been through alot. Feel free to ask meh anything. I`ll be here to answer it as well as i can.
E-mail: kayla.marie.x3@gmail.com
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Location: New Orleans
Age: 15
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I'm a 17 year old virgin. I haven't engaged in any sexual activity. I've been with my amazing boyfriend for almost a year and we have had conversations about sex. He's told me he likes when a girl shaves down there. I've never done that! How do I go about doing this before we do anything sexual? I don't want it to get irritated and not look right. How do I make sure it's smooth and what steps should I take? (link)
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don`t shave up at first, shave down.. then shave up after you almost have all of it off. then when you get out of the shower, put lotion on it. not smelly lotion just put regular lotion on it. it should be good. best of luck =]
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okay, my boyfriend tried dip and says he's not going to do it again because it gives him a headache. he also talked about getting a buzz from it. can someone explain to me what exactly it does besides give you something gross to chew on? (link)
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I don`t mean to tell this to you, but don`t believe him! My ex boyfriend dipped one time, and told me about it. He told me he was never going to do it again that it was nasty, and i told him that if he ever did it again i was going to be mad and probably break up with him. Well a week later he broke up with me because he wanted to dip, and he didn`t want me to break up with him. Well we became best friends and i was curious to see wat dip was like. (why did he like it so much to break up with me) So one day he was at my house and he had skoal (a brand of dip) peach and i tried it. No it wasn`t nasty, it was actually kinda good, but it made the inside of my lip burn. When i took it out i was dizzy and bussing. *the affect of nickatine* I would not do it again tho. Well i hope i helped =]
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wuts the averge size for a penis...and does it matter? (link)
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5 inches is average. and no it shouldn`t matter. if they really liked you. =]
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Theres this girl I really like. Ive known her since I was about 11. Im nearly 16. I want to ask her out on a date. My real question is simply how do I melt her heart, what words do you suggest I can say that will melt her heart. Also what body language should I use to tell her that Im interested. Im a brit. Thanks alot. I rate 5's for great advice. (link)
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ok. This is a hard one, but i`ll do my best. Tell her she is beautiful or gorgeous, not hott, fine or sexy. Hold her hand at any moment even if it just for a second. Kiss her on the forehead. Recognize the small things . . . they usally mean the most. Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with. Play with her hair. Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, just tell her jokes. Treate her the same around your friends as you do when your alone. {not joking} Look her in the eyes and smile. Laugh at her jokes, no matter how stupid they are. Like her for her, don`t expect her to be perfect. Body language. Don`t be sloppy, girls don`t like sloppy guys. Sit up straight and be polite. Put your arm around her. >if you want to hold her hand< Well i hope i helped. Best of luck
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can u go swimming with your period light.
and not wear a tampon?
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Yes you can, if you feel it won`t show through your bathing suit if it gets on it.
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is there any way to tell if you 'popped your cherry' alreay?
also, does it hurt more to 'pop' it in sex or in a different way??
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You aren`t able to tell if your cherry has been popped, only a doctor can. Sex is one way to pop your cherry, but it can also pop riding a bike, playing a sport, and do active things. Not just from having sex. No matter what if it is your frist time having sex its gonna hurt. Even if your cherry is popped or not. Well best of luck =]
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i've liked this guy for 2 months.. a few weeks ago, i found out that one of my best friends likes him again [ they went out in the beginning of the year ]... he likes her. this girl always gets who she wants, and i don't know why, she dumps everyone she goes out with after she gets bored with them. i really like this guy but he likes her. is there anything i can do to make him see me and not her?
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You can`t throw yourself at him, but you can try and just talk to him more. Show him how nice of a person you are, and how sweet you can be. Show him that your friend is not the only girl on the earth. Hint to him that you like him and maybe he will catch on. Best of luckk =]
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ever since about 3 or 4 years ago [ i am 13] i have been getting discharge. i use to wear pantiliners everyday but that got annoying, so i stopped. this discharge is like white and even a little yellow sometimes. i know that it is normal when i have my period, but i get it all the time. is this normal? can i do anything to stop this?
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Yes it is normal. Don`t worry about it. It happens to everyone. best of luck =]
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alright so im (15/f) and all of my friends have done stuff with boys. i havent. is that wierd? i think im just scared because once i find someone i really like i dont wanna be like hey yeah i dont know what the heck im doing! lol soo what should i do. (link)
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Just because your friends are doing things shouldn`t make you want to do them. You are you`re own person. When you`re ready to do stuff with a guy you will. Wait for the guy you know is right. Don`t do things just because you think it might be kool. Best of luck =]
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If it is you and your partners first time having sex ever, is it even possible for one of you to get an std from the partner? (link)
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Even though both of yall were virgins before having sex. You can get an STD from anything, having an open cut. Its not specifically sex. So yes, it is possible.
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This is kind of random but do you think that when someone losses thier virginity they should tell thier parents? (link)
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It is better to tell your parents, because if they find out from anyone but you it will be the worse thing ever. So i think it is best to talk to them about it and tell them yourself. hope i helped =]
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What are some web-sites that I can go to to get cute quotes? (link)
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www.xanga.com
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okay. i thought that this day, 6/6/06 was the day the anti-christ was supposed to be born. but everyone is saying we are all gonna die today, but the bible doesnt say anything about this. so what is actually happening today? (link)
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nothing at all =]
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would it be weird to talk to your dead grandmother portait about things? cause i know a friend that does it and it helps her or something (link)
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its absolutely normal. if you miss her, then do what you gotta do. it dosn`t matter if you talk to the picture or just talk to thin air. she hears you either way. =]
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can a sunburn on your face cause acne? (link)
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no it can not it can get rid of acne =]
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Alright.. I really like guy1 I mean really.. he is like my best friend also.. he has liked me before but we never went out.. me and guy1 don't even hardly talk anymore tho..and there is guy2 he's really sweet i uste to like him i probably would start likein him again, but he's not really a person that is popular and he asked me out last night but i don't know if i should.. what should i do wait for guy1 that i really like or forget about the guy1 and wait and see if i start like guy2? (link)
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i think you should wait it out. see what happens. i`m sure you would much rather be with guy1. so just wait a little bit. and eventually he should come around. best of luck =]
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hey i heard a guy in my class joke around that he said he was going to "t-back" someone.. it was a joke and all the guys thought it was hilarious.. i was so confused! lol i never heard of that!
can you tell me what that means?
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he probably meant t-bag, and that is when a guy puts his nuts in someones mouth.
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for my xanga does anyone know how to put on a backroound layout?? do i need to pay for it to get a layout.. cus i have the free one and i know what layout i want i just dont know where to put it..
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go to xanga.com then go to your page.
then go to look and feel.
when your there where it says header, and the have the drop down thing, choose input my own header, then just paste the code that you have. its that easy. ne more questions just ask.
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this is going to sound really dumb but if you use tampons then is it posible that sex wont pleasure you if you're constantly putting something up you're vagina every month?? just wondering (link)
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absolutely not true. =] hope i helped.
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when people usually go on a date to like the movies, does the guy usually pick the girl up? or can they just meet there (link)
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dear dating,
my friend said that he`d rather pick the girl up and also pay for her. =]
hope i helpeddd ^-^
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