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To tell OR Not to tell
This is kind of random but do you think that when someone losses thier virginity they should tell thier parents?
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I don't think so, somethings are better left unsaid, & I deffinetly think that this is 1 of them
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Ok.
i guess it just depends on how close your relashonship with your parents is.
If you feel that they will go all nuts then i would hold it to yourself and wait for the right time.
Now if they wont get all mad and go nuts and theyll just be calm when you tell them then i wouuld tell them.
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Personal preference. If somethings wrong tell them. If you would rather keep it to yourself than do that. It depends on how close they are to you.
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it depends more on how close you and your parents are. if you are close enough to talk about this sort of thing then yes you should tell them.
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If you're young, yes. If you're old enough then its your personal business as an adult, and you can tell them if you choose to or not tell.
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It is better to tell your parents, because if they find out from anyone but you it will be the worse thing ever. So i think it is best to talk to them about it and tell them yourself. hope i helped =]
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Well if you think your parents are going to freak out then I personally would not tell them but I mean you could talk to your parents and explain to them that you were ready and you were safe, and see what happends. |x|
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Honestly, I don't think it's the place of a friend to tell the parents about that issue. If someone wants their parents to know, they should be the ones that tell them. It's a very personal issue and some people don't want anyone else knowing. If someone were to get pregnant or show signs of STD's, I would say that that's a different story and that it would be okay to tell in that situation.
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It depends on a lot of things and if you want to tell them. It's not that you should of have to but if you feel like they need to know then yes, tell them. You can keep it private unless there might be a problem. Like other columnists mentioned, AIDS, STDS, being pregnant.. those kind of emergencies.
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Hmm...tricky, tricky.
Obviously that's a top on the list of awkward conversations with your parents. And I honestly don't know if this is the most correct thing to do, but I'll tell you what I would do if i was in your case. Unless something seriouse happened because of you losing your virginity,(like getting an STD, or pregnant) I would keep that on the down-low. And of course this is something reaaalllyyy un-comfortable to talk about with your parents, so I think you should try and not to have sex after this -to keep your consiounce clean.
As the saying goes..
If you wouldn't do it infront of your parents, don't do it at all.
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Nope. It's none of their business. If you have an STD or get pregnant, then you really should. If not, they don't need to know. It's YOUR body. If you're really close and open with your parents, then you can if you want to. But otherwise...I mean, if you were married and lost your virginity, would you tell your parents? Probably not. So, yeah, basically it's not something they need to know.
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You should tell your parents if you get pregnant or get AIDS or any other STD. if not, i think you should talk to them before hand and ask them about how they feel, and what they think. Dont want them to find out youve been there, done that :)
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It depends on the need and the expected reaction of the parents. If you think they would flip, it is not worth it, unless you are pregnant or have an STD. Yet, if you just lost it and have no reason to tell them, don't. It would do more harm than good if there was no reason.
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Some people have such a good relationship..that they feel they can tell their parents. it all depends on how you feel. i personally would not tell my parents..but it all depends because only you know your parents well enough to decide that.
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Only if they want to, and if they know their parents wont kill them. Some parents react differently.
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