i've liked this guy for 2 months.. a few weeks ago, i found out that one of my best friends likes him again [ they went out in the beginning of the year ]... he likes her. this girl always gets who she wants, and i don't know why, she dumps everyone she goes out with after she gets bored with them. i really like this guy but he likes her. is there anything i can do to make him see me and not her?
He likes her. She likes him. Stand back until they decide it's over (again). Especially since she is your best friend!
The best thing you can do is be there for her, and keep your mouth shut. You can be there for him too, just make sure it's in a non-romantic way. Even if she gets bored of her boyfriends quickly.
JustLivingLife06 answered Tuesday June 13 2006, 5:05 pm: Dear Best friends and boyfriends,
I know how you feel...this happened to me too.
Maybe if your friend knew that you liked him then maybe she's not really your friend...?
You have to be honest with this guy and tell him that you like him and maybe ask him out?
But is your friendship with this girl more important than the guy? or is this guy more important than your friend?
lilly_pads79 answered Tuesday June 13 2006, 3:30 pm: There is nothing you can do really to influence him, except flirting like crazy. If he does date her wait till they break up and then comfort. Hope for the best!
OHilovetravis answered Tuesday June 13 2006, 2:16 pm: You can't really make him see you as nothing more than a friend. If she does happen to breakup with him then show him that you will be there. Just talk to him n stuff, dont ask him about your friend (whitch may be his gf) because you don't know how much he likes her an how he totally feels about her yet. Just be friends with him an stuff. And remmeber if he is worth having he is worth waiting for, an if you don't have him right now then he might be worth the wait despite girls who may come into his life!!
0verMyHead answered Tuesday June 13 2006, 1:40 pm: You can`t throw yourself at him, but you can try and just talk to him more. Show him how nice of a person you are, and how sweet you can be. Show him that your friend is not the only girl on the earth. Hint to him that you like him and maybe he will catch on. Best of luckk =] [ 0verMyHead's advice column | Ask 0verMyHead A Question ]
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