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Thias weekend
this week end my best friend's family is coming over for easter. The boy I like is my best friends brother so he's coming to. I'm really worried I'll do something wrong and make him not like me because i think he does like me. what should i do??
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Don't try and impress him.
I mean, if he can't handle you even at your worst, does he deserve you at your best?
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Just relax and be happy, dont try to impress him, and dont spend all your time with him. Let things flow, whatever happens, happens. Just try not get nervouse and if you think you are then dont hang with him that much instead hang with your best friend and if they are both together go into your room and breath in deeply, then breath out. Continue till you are ready, then walk out the door with a smile on your face (not a creepy smile though)
I am sure everything will go great
good luck! =)
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just relax have a good time and you wont be orried about it the less worried you are th easier itll be
good luk
kim
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Like the others said, be yourself and don't think you'll mess up. Don't obsess about it.
Let's put it this way: If you be yourself and you do something that turns him off, then he doesn't like you all that much. If you keep on thinking that you have to impress him, that you have to do this right, that you musn't eat with your mouth open, or whatever, then you'll be nervous and he can't get to know the real you.
Both of you are still on the getting to know each other stage, so you just have to be yourself and calm down.
Don't forget that there is still a chance that it won't work out, but wouldn't you be crushed if he hated you because you tried to hard to impress him? What if he thought you were this way, but because you were thinking to much of slipping up, you became another way, and he didn't like that?
There are more "What if?" questions out there, but if you just stay true to yourself, you don't have to regret it because if he doesn't like you, at least you're sure that he doesn't like you (as more than a friend) for YOUR attitude, and not because you pretended to be something that you're not.
Heck, if it doesn't work out, it probably wasn't meant to be. There are other guys out there, so you don't have to be impatient... Your time (and your guy) will come soon enough.. :)
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relax, if you keep thinking your gonna mess up your chances then you will probably end up doing just that, try not to focus so much on how you could mess things up and focus on how you can find out if he likes you the way you like him and think about stuff you could talk about and what you'll wear. It should be something you should look forward to not freak out about.
Just be yourself
good luck, shandi
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Just play it cool act like yourself...if he likes you he likes how you are so dont change...dont show off or ignore him...or be nervous those things are a turn off be yourself
dominican grl
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