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Member Since: March 25, 2006
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Last Update: April 13, 2006
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where r u from. (link)
Im from Pennsylvania you??


I had a perfectly flat and toned stomach, but now that I've had a baby I have stretch marks and some saggy skin in the lower belly. What can
i do? (link)
do crunches every night a pply cocoa butter about 3 times a day :)


this week end my best friend's family is coming over for easter. The boy I like is my best friends brother so he's coming to. I'm really worried I'll do something wrong and make him not like me because i think he does like me. what should i do?? (link)
Just play it cool act like yourself...if he likes you he likes how you are so dont change...dont show off or ignore him...or be nervous those things are a turn off be yourself

dominican grl


i like this senior guy (i'm a sophmore) and i'm not sure if he likes me or not. don't want to
make a fool of myself but in a few months he'll go off to college and i dont want to miss this chance. got any ideas to find out if he likes me or is just being friendly? (link)
I think you should find you if he likes you...you can either be bold and just ask him...have one of his friends or your friends t ask him...


i have not had my period in 4 weeks and 6 days is that bad? (link)
Yeah thats a long time you NEED to go get a pregnancy test A.S.A.P. Good Luck

:)


so i recently started going out with this guy. and we go to 2 diffent skools so we see each other on the weekens. we started going out on the 26th of march btw.
so he came to my skool with me on monday to meet all my friends and for fun and stuff, and cuz he doesn't have skool.
so i have this really pretty friend and i thought they were flirting and she is alot prettier than me, seriously she is almost a model and shit.
and i think she likes him and i think he likes her back. and i really like him and i don't want her to steal him from me. or for him to like her while we are going out, cause that is weird. it would be like everything is fake and stuff. so i don't know what to do.
his friend said he wouldn't cheat or go for another girl, but i am not worryed about that. i am worryed about them liking each other.

what should i do?
i don't wanna scare him off or somehthing, maybe i am wrong? but i am pretty sure there was flirting and i am really sad. i cryed for ever and every song i heard made me sad. i feel like a baby. :( (link)
Hey hun 1st off your friend who is like a model or whatever isn't a true friend she shouldnt have even 2nd looked at him that was wrong for her to flirt with your man....you need to make sure u let your friend know that he is YOURS AND YOURS ONLY! You should comfront your boyfriend and just be like do you like her?? Just say your curious about it...dont hang out with both of them at the same time any more...just keep your boyfriend to yourself that way you dont have to ask yourself if they like eachother dont even et them talk to eachother...Well thats how i would handle that hope this helps grl :)


so this guy has been OBSESSED with me like you have no idea! (sometimes its a little freaky even...) and when i'm not with him and i'm like talking to him on the phone or something i like him, but when i'm actually with him i can't even describe how i feel! i don't even like touching or going near him! I mean, he is ugly but i don't think that's why. I hooked up with him and he likes me LOVES me actually but i REALLY don't want to have anything to do with him! WHAT DO I DO?! PS, i can't tell him that i don't like him. and also i'm bff with all his bffs so i can't be mean either otherwise everyone will get mad at me....! but hes DISGUSTING! i really really really really really reaylly reaylly really really don't like him!!!!!!! (link)
Ok well evidently your not happy with him and you really shouldn't be in a relationship when your not happy...I understand you dont want to hurt his feelings and all that but just tel him that you really need your space and that you would preffer just being friends with him...tell him that you dont want to ruin your friendship with him and that you think things are just moving a little to fast and that nothing really is going to change tell him he is still going to be your number one friend...thats what i would do so i hope this helps you hun....BE SAFE

Dominican Grl~


I like this boy named Luis(as you might know) But I want to know if he likes me. I afraid to ask him to go out with me and stuff so I was wonder if he was ever going to ask me. He is shy around girls and Ishy around some boys. him one of them. He flirts with me and i flirt back. and when the teachers make us sit by each other we'll lean on each other but I'm not sure if that's Liking someone or not. Do you think he likes me? (link)
Umm..I think he mostlikely does like you by you guys leaning on eachother but he seems really shy from what you said so i dont think he is going to try to really show that he likes you just because he is that shy....you should show him that you like him and stuff that way he feels more comfortable around you...your probably going to have to move in on him first because he is so shy well good luck...

Dominican Grl~


Hey, I know you hate love questions but this is extremely important to me so if you could help.. it would just be highly appreciated =] =]

So, I'm planning a get together with a few of my friends this Thursday. One of my girl friends and one of my guy friends. I also wanted to invite my crush, Calvin, who I've liked since September. We've went out one before(January), and I've liked him since September.He lives up the street from me and I want to invite him, but I'm very shy and I dont know if I should call him or just walk to his house on Thursday. Help please?

Thanks (link)
Umm.. if i were you i would give him a call not walk up to his house...just call him don't act nervous act like it's nothing and just say hey im having a little get together with a few friends and i was wondering if you wanted to come over for a little bit tell him who's going to be there and what you guys are going to do....and im sure he will say yess if he has time..hope this helps

~Dominican Grl


My mum and I just had a big argument.. we NEVER fight, but when we do it's pretty bad. Anyway, I told her I hadn't been sleeping lately, like it takes me hours to get to sleep because I'm doing year 12 and I'm very stressed. I have trouble concentrating at school and I'm having difficulty doing my work because of lack of sleep (I get 5 or 6 hours at most, but usually less). I asked her if maybe I could see a doctor or get something at the drugstore to help me sleep, and she got REALLY angry at me, saying it was my fault for not concentrating and that I was selfish and that there's nothing a doctor could give me ever so I just had to deal with it. She also made fun of me and acted like it was no big deal. Well, I know it's nothing serious, but I thought I could just ask her if there's anything I could get. I felt very hurt that she treated me like that when I thought I could rely on her to help me out. Now I'm starting to think that maybe it IS my fault, and she was right.

What do you guys think of this? We haven't spoken since then. Was I really making a big deal over nothing? Is my mum right? She's usually very wise, but I still feel kinda bad she said that to me. Is it really true that there's nothing you can for insomnia?
I will rate. (link)
I dont think you made a big deal of the sittuation i mean your mom shouldn't have flipped out on you like that im so sorry that you feel like this because it really does seem like you don't have nobody to rely on because your mom kind of turned her back on you when you called out for her help which most daughters dont have with there mothers....as for insomnia that is a problom my mom has really bad insomnia and it takes her 3 hrs tossin n turnin in bed for her just to close her eyes and she only sleeps about 45 hrs a night and she is on the pills...docors will monitor your sleeping and give you sleeping pills for at night because you really need them if you have insomnia.... my mom takes 7 pills nightly for her insomnia but i dont think your's is as bad as hers...which is a good thing...you should go get checked with a doctor if they say you need the pills then you should go get them REALLY they will help a lot and plus you dont want your grades to slip soo thats my opponion....You and your mom really need to stop keeping a grudge that tears your heart up....So hope you take my advice into some concideration...sory about the probloms your haveing with your mom thats never good

~DominicanGrl


How to make new friends ?
How to talk when first meet with him or her? (link)
Just be very out going with everything and go up to anybody introduce yourself ask people what they like to do for fun tell them what you like to do for fun....just walk up hi my name is ____and when you do that they will see your trying to make new friends....and just say hi im just looking for new friends and getting to know people better...

~Dominicangrl


My best friends dog died, and I know the dog meant a lot to her mom. I love her mom to death and I want to do something special for her to make her feel a little better. Any suggestions? (link)
Maybe you can get a whole bunch of pictures of the dog and put them together on a poster or something and laminiate them just so the dog can always stay in there memory and in there heart....You could get them another dog that helped me when my dog ran away...get there mind off something else take them out do other acctivities so there not dwelling over the dog all day..


Ok, So I am 13 years old and since May 2005, I have found myself madly in love with no other than a 20 year old McDonalds worker. He has started to open up a little more in the past couple of months, and he gives me lots of hugs, flirts, and shows all the "signs" of love back. Yet he has never told me. This week we are supposed to go to the movies. My question is, Should I open up and tell him I love him or should I just wait until he does? (link)
I think that if truely love him you need to let him know just go for it and let him know that you have strong feelings for him and that you really love him...

P.S. take your relationship slowly going out with an older guy like that..well good luck


~Dominicangrl


I Need alot of help right now with this guy but i would rather not post it. Anyone on here that owuldnt Mine Helping me Thru Instant Message? I would really appreciate it.

17f (link)
Yesss you can email me or instant message me

Nellylova1489 instant message

Nellylova1489@aol.com email


okay.. im sorry if this is long. but i need help mucho bad.. and sooner than later.. so okay..me and my friend always fight.. and well me and him just got into a fight.. and it was because in the begining of the year me and my friend made a bet. it was about a dance.. and my friend said that i should go with him.. and i said no he wouldnt want to go with me. and i was like i bet you 200 dollars. and so yeah.. he found out about it. and well i guess he got mad.. and now he's like not talking to me.. and idk.. i really want to try and fix our friendship.. but im not sure if i can.. any ideas on what i should say.. and im gunna see him tommrow so it would help if the ideas where in sooner... but its okay if there not.. ill rate 5's for any serious answerss.. PLEASEEEE HELPP

thnxx!! (link)
Well when you go to see him 2 morrow tell him that your sick of fighting and you would really like to be friends again like it was before...tell him that being mad at eachoter and keeping a grudge is just wasting time in your friend ship and you want to forget about the past and solve things...and tel him you really miss things being how they use to be...there are some ideas hope the help

~Dominicangrl


i kinda like this guy..but i have a boyfriend..this is a conversation with the other guy..can anyone tell me what they think of it? what is he thinking? i am so confused. he has been showing signs of liking me, but i'm not sure..and i think he might have caught on that i like him..but i don't know.


him: im so cold
me: get a sweatshirt or a blanket
him: i haue the sweatshirt on
me: awww..i'd keep you warm!
him: fyi you and [my bf] had an awkward goodbye on fri and im layin on the bed curled up but you'd be better
me: yeah..cause i felt bad leaving him..but he was mad cause he wanted to come over and i said no
him: awkward kiss 2
me: :-\..i dont know anymore.
him: dont say that
me: what do you want me to say?
him: pff i don't know
him: i just dont want to see u upset
me: whatever..i dont even care anymore
him: why do you say that
me: i just feel like with or without him its bad
me: i'm going to send you perfect song lyrics by rascal flatts who you hate
me: And I don’t wanna see you anymore
I’m just not that strong
I love it when you’re here
But I’m better when you’re gone
I’m certain that I’ve given
And oh how you can take
There’s no use in you lookin’
There’s nothin’ left for you to break
Baby, please release me
Let my heart rest in pieces, in pieces
him: i like anyone you like
me: then you must absolutely love yourself!
me: :-P
him: aww you're adorable
me: :-( i miss you.
him: aww why
me: how coudlnt i?
him: huh
me: how couldnt i miss you?
him: why me
me: what do you mean why you?
him: why am i so missed
me: because i haven't seen you and barely talked to you..and that makes me happy
him: not seeing me makes u happy
me: ahh..you know what i mean. you make me happy.
him: ily [my name] and ill always be there 4 you
me: i know you want to
him: want to wat
me: always be there
him: i will
me: don't you hate it when you feel like timing is all screwed up?
him: wat timing
me: like..why did we not meet until this year?
him: i don't know why it happened
me: haha. sorry. i'm in a deep mood. i just had a deep conversation with someone and now i'm looking at everything like that.
him: aww it's okay (link)
I think i shows in that convo that he likes you but also he dosn't want to really say anything out of place because he know that you have a boyfriend so he dosn't want to seen like he is stepping out of place it looks like. I think your showing signals that you like him but i dont think he is sure if you really like him...i dont think he will talk about it either knowing that you have a boy friend.....so thats my opponion about your conversation..

Dominicangrl


ok so me and this guy had an amazing time last night...this guy i reallly like was wrappin his arms around me, puttin his chin on my sholder, starin me in the eyes, we were layin down and he was gettin closer and closer, hugged me goodnight, and just doin all this stuff that made me think that maybe he really likes me. But i hear tonight that he doesn't like me and thinks i'm annoying and w/e. what do ya'll think is the truth? he's 20/m and i'm 17/f (link)
Im not sure who told you that he said that but if it was a friend make sure you dont listen to gossip because these days every one is trying to break up other peopls relationships....by all the things he was doing to you those are big signals that he likes you if he didn't like you i dont think he wouldve done all that or have taken the time to hang out with you...jus comfront him and ask him if your annoying to him...and ask him if helikes you or not..



ok heres 1: im your not average but not that bad 14een year old and recently ive been like hating my life and wanting someone elses life like ages ago i wanted to be paris hilton (im a guy weird ) then frankie muniz and now martin spanjers and devon werkhiser of tv is it normal or should i just go ahead and sit in a hole.


second realated to the first

i want to be recognized and be a idol and stuff and i kinda wanna act but im s**t scared in case i go to acting school go in one of there weird productions and suck ALOT aaaaaaaaaaa

now either i need a shrink or im just a normal 14 year old (link)
Hey your just a normal 14 year old trying to find yourself live life hapy your a teenager don't stress over these things

~Dominicangrl


I have been dating this guy for almost 8 months now (a year and a half on and off) and I really love him. I have talked to my mom once before about birth control (once when we had been dating for 2 1/2 months, once when it was 5, then once again when it was 7.) It's nearly eight months now and I really wanna get on birth control. But my mom's scared that by doing it she's giving me permission to have sex and do whatever. I explained that if it arises, I just wanna be as protected as possible. I feel weird having to be the one to always bring it up, but I want answers now! My boyfriend is away in rehab for 2 months so I figured now would be a good time to bring it up. How can I talk to her about it and get her to see my side?

I rate high, thanks! (link)
Let your mom know that you don't want to end up pregnant or anything jsut incase anything doespop up...tell her your not sayinng that your going to have sex tell her that you just want to be protected just in case....let her knwo that most teenagers dont ask for birth control and you are and tell her that she can trust you... hope this helps


i was wondering if anyone knows any poems about love and romantic things i really need like at least three but if you onlt know 1 or 2 it's ok i still wanna hear them plez let me hear your poems (link)
Tell me if you like my poem


Sometimes I feel lost when everything i do
seems so wrong.
But with your powerful words you make me
feel so strong.
Whenever my heart is crushed,
I cry day and night...
but when i see your loving smile
everythings alright.
when i have a bad day and are feeling blue,
I just remember all the sweet things you do.
When somethings on my mind but im afraid
to share,you can always get it out of me








by saying,tell me so i can be there.
When im alone and scared,shivering with fright,
you warm me and comfort me by holding me tight.
You are the love of my life and i will never
be able to forget the warmth,the smiles and
the Love you've given ,I know that you were sent to me from Heaven.
*************************************************
You can be my nightmare,
you can be my dream come true,
it really dosnt matter,
i just need u to know that i love u,
what happen while waiting to grow up,will we stay together or drift apart,if wait,wait how long,will our love stay strong,or fade through the years,if we fall apart,will we be friends,or will we never see nor talk to eachother ever again,i need to know,your what makes me whole,when your here with me,the glass is half full,when your gone its just half empty,your what makes me...me
**************************************************
Roses are Red and Hearts are too
Would you be my Valentine?
If I told you I love you.
Would you be my Valentine?
hearts red and candy too
would you walk with me to Heaven
I promise I'll see you through.
Would you be my Valentine?
and shoot your cupids bow
straight thru the Hearts of lovers
to start a burning glow.
Would you be my Valentine?
and hold me close to your heart.
I'll make us a place in paradise,
and thats where we'll make our start.
Would you be my Valentine?
Roses Red , Violets Blue,
If I asked you to hold me,
Is that something you'd want to do?
Would you be my Valentine?
and give me a kiss or two,
Would you be my Valentine ?
If I just simply asked you to.

Hey hun i just got your feed back yeah i write a lot of poems and i am working on a career for it i have poems for many subjects anything you want to read just let me know ok buh byes




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