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thursday night - ask him now or later?
Hey, I know you hate love questions but this is extremely important to me so if you could help.. it would just be highly appreciated =] =]
So, I'm planning a get together with a few of my friends this Thursday. One of my girl friends and one of my guy friends. I also wanted to invite my crush, Calvin, who I've liked since September. We've went out one before(January), and I've liked him since September.He lives up the street from me and I want to invite him, but I'm very shy and I dont know if I should call him or just walk to his house on Thursday. Help please?
Thanks <333
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you should call him and ask him to go, i'm sure he'll say yes and if he's busy that day it's not the end of the world he might realize you like him and ask you out
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i think you should call him and ask him if he wants to come and if he can then youl have a good tme and youll feel better for it and if he says no so what? go and have a good time anyway
kim
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Umm.. if i were you i would give him a call not walk up to his house...just call him don't act nervous act like it's nothing and just say hey im having a little get together with a few friends and i was wondering if you wanted to come over for a little bit tell him who's going to be there and what you guys are going to do....and im sure he will say yess if he has time..hope this helps
~Dominican Grl
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I don't think you should walk to his house on Thursday since the get together is on Thursday.
I think you should call him up before then and invite him.
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I am also very shy. I actually had the same prob last night. Except I just wanted to ask one specific person to the movies so I wouldn't go alone. All I did was ask if he would do something for me. He said sure. Then I simply asked if he would go to the movies with me. His reply; sure. So maybe you could do that. But I'm supposedly "funny" so I dunno. But thats my suggestion. Or you could just simply flat out ask him if he would like to go.
Hope I helped.
<3.ashley.
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hey! well since your a little shy i would call him to ask him to come, it would be easier for you. just be casual about it and dont be nervous. if he's gone out with you before, then he's interested so will most likely say yes to coming over! xoxo helpachick
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Call him. Just be casual and to the point.
If you wait till Thursday, he might have made plans already.
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i have been in this situation also!
if you are super shy, try having a friend do it at lunch or sumtime. have a close bud go up causally and say "hey so and so would like you to go sumwere thursday you in?"
if that dosnt work for you try it yourself. be calm, cool, and collected, just walk up to him and say "heyy well im going somewere and something opened up, do you wana tag along?" dont be shy about it, be strait forward. dont seem like you like him, wait for a sign that he likes you!
i hope i helped :-)
Jill
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