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heyy my name is jill. nicknames - jillfer jillif jill diffy, and so on. i am a full time member of the DGG (which is also featured in my freinds advicnator toria)ohh ya toria is one cool dude. hehe i have a fun attidue and LOVE giving advice, im not to bad i think. ive gone through alot of stuff in my life and had experince. i love softball as you can see, also soccer basketball and other sports. and...my boyfriend eric. i love to answer fashion, love, and other questions. the only kind i dont like...are things that...well shouldt be done. :-\
much love! ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

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i really like my boyfriend but he like touches other girls boobs and stuff...but like as a joke and idk what to do ive talk to hiim but i dont think hes gonna stop bc thats the way he is

help pleaese

d u m p. h i m

touching other girls is totaly and frankly wrong. first of all, he shouldnt be touching any girls boobs. ever. it could be counted as sexual harrasment and is just plain wrong. if you dont want to break up with him, share your feelings "hey, touching other girls breasts is wrong and i want you to stop rite now"

hope i helped :-)
Jill

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does proactive really work? im asian and my skin is kinda oily.. soo do you think it might work? i know its different for everyone but i dont know

ya someone i know uses it . it usualy works like a charm. but before you start buying products try washing your face more. use a store-bought face soap and wash every morning, and every after noon\night.

hope i helped :-)

Jill

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its me again the adored bfff welll........ i am having this sleepover and i thinnk my friend (((JILL))) is a lezz bc she keeps asking me if id hate her if she waz but i respect tht shes a lezz bc after all she iz attracted to me (i dont blame her) how do i tell her tht i love her bak???? help me stranger

rachel, im not a lesbaian u idiot, its our inside joke u dip.

EVERYONE: im not a les, it is and inside joke

funny rachel you are an LBR (loser beyond repair)
im just joking!

bff mRm

Jill

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ya ik you here lots n' lots of these but its important.. well theres this boy and ever since like 3 moths ago weve been on and off.. and now im goin away and i havent talked to him for a while and everytime i call him he doesnt pick up he usally calls back but ive called about 3 times and he hasnt called back.. and hasnt been on.. im going away tommarow and i really need to talk to him.. he says he likes me.. and goes c ya babe and stuff.. but then when i ask him out he goes idk or somethin.. i really really love him.. i got attached to him.. and i wanna go out w. him.. do you think he likes me.. how do i make him like me if he doesnt???? thanks jill
xo this stupid girl who loves this stupid guy

talk to him in person if possible.
people say more what they feel when they are faced to face with that person. if at all possible, go to his house a day when you are sure he is there and say what u feel. if that is not possible, use the buddy system! have a friend of yours, that obliously know him, to say to him " so and so like you alot and if you want to get her like you act, then say yes to her when she comes back" if you have a number you can be reached at over the vacation, have your friend call you as soon as possible. if it turns out he dosnt like you, look for another guys beacuase there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Hope i Helped

Jill :-)

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well my friend (lets call her jill) keeps sqeezing my knee to make me laugh and i wanna get her bak wht shud i do????

well... i think you should buy this girl gifts.

ha im just kidding
this is my friend melissa AKA Rachel and mrm
thank you for sending me this rach. but i like ur knees ;-)

jkjkjk

ur my bffl!

-Jill

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umm well my x is dating 1 of my friends and i still lyk him a little but he hattttessss mee wht should i do sulk or ask out the kis i really reallly lyk?? help

well, i think you just not totaly over him yet! it happens many times after a relationship. try looking at other guys who appeal to you, and see thier good qualitys. one thing NOT to do is interfere with your friend and X's relationship, it wont make your friend very happy, and the guy, who knows.


hope i helped! :-)

Jill

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gffhngfjghjty hiiiiii

umm ok
that wasnt really a question

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ok so i am 13/f and i know girls can be nasty..
i am on a sports team for school and the first day was today.. its a 7th and 8th grade team and there are 3 other 7th graders that are on it that i am close friends with.. butttt there are about 15 8th graders. half of them are wicked nice and i've known them for a whille. but the other half seem to have a problem with me and my friends. truthfully we never did anything to them! i dont even know most of them and have never talked to them! last year they were jealos of our boyfriends, but im single right now anyways. they talk crap about us during practice and they get my bestfriends ex to call us names. i wanna make it through the seasons w/o any cat fights.

thanks ill rate high*xo

d o t h e o p o s i t e!
my mom always sed to me "if someone is mean...do the opposite" same thing happened to me.these girls on my softball team though they were "the it" they always brought in doughnuts and ice coffe...all the 6th graders would be siting there hungry and thirsty, while they glom down all the precious food. so ya know wht i did? i brought in dooughtuts and shared w\ them...next practice...GUESS WHO WAS NICE TO MEE!!!!!!! anywaysdo the opposite..get on thier good side!

hope i helped
Jill :-)

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My best friends dog died, and I know the dog meant a lot to her mom. I love her mom to death and I want to do something special for her to make her feel a little better. Any suggestions?

i went through the same thing...poor skipper. i know what made me feel better was taking my mind off of it!!!!! try inviting her over...talking to her at school. and for her mom...maybe a gift basket? like with grownup stuff in it like coffe mug, gift cirtificates... you know

hope i helped!!!
Jill

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Well theres this guy....

I'm sure most of you are tired of seeing that, my apologies.

Anyway, I've known him for almost two years now and hes one of those guys who teases me all the time, in a friendly way and I'm starting to fall for him.

It's just that when I'm not around him I want him more but when I'm actually near him I dont want anything to do with him.

Does anyone have an explanation as to why I feel this way? I don't even know if I like him or not.

Thank you very much. =)

well its typical. this guy\man\boy proboly has the best personality in the world...and u cant stop thinking about this.but maybe hes not good looking (sorry if im wrong dont mean to offend)if that is this case, think about which you value more, a good personality or good looks. (maybe the whole sitution is vise versa though, maybe hes hott, but not a good personality) anyways... if your looking to date him...follow what your heart tell u
hope i helped!

Jill

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Hey, I know you hate love questions but this is extremely important to me so if you could help.. it would just be highly appreciated =] =]

So, I'm planning a get together with a few of my friends this Thursday. One of my girl friends and one of my guy friends. I also wanted to invite my crush, Calvin, who I've liked since September. We've went out one before(January), and I've liked him since September.He lives up the street from me and I want to invite him, but I'm very shy and I dont know if I should call him or just walk to his house on Thursday. Help please?

Thanks

i have been in this situation also!

if you are super shy, try having a friend do it at lunch or sumtime. have a close bud go up causally and say "hey so and so would like you to go sumwere thursday you in?"
if that dosnt work for you try it yourself. be calm, cool, and collected, just walk up to him and say "heyy well im going somewere and something opened up, do you wana tag along?" dont be shy about it, be strait forward. dont seem like you like him, wait for a sign that he likes you!

i hope i helped :-)
Jill

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My teacher hates me. I can't say a word in her classroom, even when everyone else is talking. I don't like here either. She's my lest fave teacher. Is there any way i could make her like me as a student.

heyy dont feel bad
there are plenty of teachers that would rather me jump out of the window, then have me in class! lol
try doing extra things. like in social studies class, someone always has to pass out folders. so i volenteer! im not sure what grade you are in, but try doing extra things around the classroom. ya it kinda sounds geeky, but being on a teahcers good side is important. trying harder can also work! like study your butt off for a test. if you get a good grade, the teacher could think you are trying extra hard, and may lighten up

i hope i helped :-)
Jill

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tell me what you think:

when i am in the car with my dad in the morning and he's driving me and my cousin to work.. like we have the music on. Now he likes rap music like i do.. so we listen to WAMO or 96.1 and like he taps his fingers on the sterrin wheel ALL THE TIME and it ANNOYS ME!!

like i can't even look at him doing it because it like makes me feel like i'm about to have a type of attack or sumthing and i can't hear it.. god forbid if i hear him tapping because it really gets to me

so i look out the window all the time opposite from him and i don't look straight ahead.. and i have my iPod full blast and then i have to position my eyes when looking out the window so i don't see his reflection of his fingers moving in the window..

and then!

there's this boy i talk to and like he chews gum and how he chews it makes me so mad because he doesn't chew it right to me and i can't look at him because i would just get mad or i would get nervous

like now it's like i feel like i get nervous after a while if the tapping or whatever that is annoying me insists. i get nervous like as if i was to see a spider (i'm really scared of spiders by the way..)

and i noticed before little things like that annoyed me but it never got to the point where i would have to look away because it made me nervous..

what do you think??

i know how you feel..little things annoy me too...like when people talk to themself. anyways... try to get your mind off the thing that is bothering you! like when your dad is tapping...think about something you like...i dont know what you like...but say you love cotton candy ( my secret obsession :-)) think about a big bag of cotton candy. also, siting down (even though it is hard) and talking to that person and just comeing strait through and saying " i really dont like when you... well tap, do you think you could stop?" and so on.

well i hope i helped :-)
Jill

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Okay so I used to cut myself, but I've gotten somewhat better now. I have gym tomorrow and the uniform is a t-shirt. I don't want anyone to see the scars/scabs on my arms and make a big deal. Can anyone tell me how to cover my arms in gym, without being really obvious? Please don't tell me to get help for cutting myself, I am in the process of doing so. Thanks so much, I'll rate high.

heyy

first of all, stop cutting yourself! if you're depressed or sumthin u need to tell someone! (i will be glad to help you) about covering the scarbs up..try braclets! bangles, hair elatics, livestrongs. maybe even coverup would work.

if you need more help tell me!!!!

i hope i helped all tht i can!

Jill

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