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Just another question about GUYS
Well theres this guy....
I'm sure most of you are tired of seeing that, my apologies.
Anyway, I've known him for almost two years now and hes one of those guys who teases me all the time, in a friendly way and I'm starting to fall for him.
It's just that when I'm not around him I want him more but when I'm actually near him I dont want anything to do with him.
Does anyone have an explanation as to why I feel this way? I don't even know if I like him or not.
Thank you very much. =)
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Oh dear!! You found yourself a Bad Boy! The problem with bad boys is that they are, in their own way, very seductive. We hate them, loathe them, detest their very existence (hence why you don't want anything to do with him when he's around) but we just can't get enough of them! Hence why you want him round when he's not.
Much as I hate to say it, bad boys are always best left alone but as you sound as though you may already be under his spell, this may be easier said than done! It's a sort of masochistic desire that brings us back to them time and time again.
The only thing I can suggest is that you either try to go out with him or you focus on other guys instead, to try and take your mind off him. It might be a little tough but be warned. If you go out with him, he's likely to hurt you. Then again, maybe it's a right of passage for every woman. After all, you can't know true love until you've been burned........the choice is really up to you.
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well, it kind of sounds like you enjoy getting attention from him! you like it when he teases you, because it makes you feel good that someone is paying that much attention to you! as a result, when he is not around, you miss the attention he gives you! but when he is around, you don't want anything to do with him because it's not him that you like, it's just the attention. ok what I just said is a bit confusing, but it makes sense to me, so I hope you know what I mean! i've been unsure of my feelings for a guy before too! all you can do is give it time... if you start enjoying his company and beeing around him, in addition to thinking of him when he is not around, then you have started to like him and can go ahead and try and persue a relationship! :) hope that helps!
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its hard to know how to act around someone when youre not sue if you like them but im sure lyk evryone falls for the guy they least expect which never helps all i can say is just do what you think is right and youl know if you do like him after a while. if youre sure you like him let him know then maybe you will find out wether or not you want to be around him or not
good luk
kim
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sometimes when you know someone a long time you develop feelings for them... wut they say is to wait a month before you do anything about it if they r your friends. i went through a similar situation with my best friend but i didnt like him as a boyfriend i was just really lonely so the waiting really paid off
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well its typical. this guymanboy proboly has the best personality in the world...and u cant stop thinking about this.but maybe hes not good looking (sorry if im wrong dont mean to offend)if that is this case, think about which you value more, a good personality or good looks. (maybe the whole sitution is vise versa though, maybe hes hott, but not a good personality) anyways... if your looking to date him...follow what your heart tell u
hope i helped!
Jill
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Ugh, don't we all just hate when that happens? So anyways, all I can tell you is to just wait a while and see if you're feelings for him grow. My sister was like this over a guy for 3 years, and they are happily married now. So, just wait a couple of months and see if you really do have feelings for him, and tell him to lay of the jokes for a while :/ I'm pretty sure I didn't help much, but I hope I did...
-A.P
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