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ok so me and this guy had an amazing time last night...this guy i reallly like was wrappin his arms around me, puttin his chin on my sholder, starin me in the eyes, we were layin down and he was gettin closer and closer, hugged me goodnight, and just doin all this stuff that made me think that maybe he really likes me. But i hear tonight that he doesn't like me and thinks i'm annoying and w/e. what do ya'll think is the truth? he's 20/m and i'm 17/f
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That's a tricky one. I think it depends who you heard that he doesn't like you from.
Technically, if a guy finds you annoying, it's highly unlikely that he will hug you and put his chin on your shoulder and so on as, let's face it, if a guy really bugs you, how close would you really want to get to him!?
If you heard it from a good friend of his (male) then you can probably believe that what they have said was true and that for whatever reason, he was being a little over friendly that night.
If you heard it from another girl, she might be telling the truth. But then, she also might be making it up because she likes him too and doesn't want you going out with him.
Really, the only way you will know the answer is to ask him. I know it's horribley embarrassing but if you just say something similar to "Someone told me that you're not particularly keen on me and that you think I'm annoying and I want to know if it's true because if it is, I think I have a right to hear it from you." This way, you don't sound whiney or like you're unnerved by the prospect of his answer but more like you want to know because he should be telling you, rather than treat you like a friend and have you hear it from someone else.
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Men can lead you on. Particularly if they think it is for sex. So that is always a possibility.
However, the people you have heard this from could be just talking a load of shit.
So stop playing around, and just ask him. Being shy and coy is fun when you are young, but when you grow up you realise that you need to own your feelings and stop trying to hide them. Be honest and tell him how you feel!
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ok well from what you said he sounds like he's pretty into you, i wouldn't be listening to what other people are telling you, you should talk to him yourself and ask him if hes into or if all the stuff he said bout you was true. hopefully that helped somewhat lol alright well i hope all goes well.
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Im not sure who told you that he said that but if it was a friend make sure you dont listen to gossip because these days every one is trying to break up other peopls relationships....by all the things he was doing to you those are big signals that he likes you if he didn't like you i dont think he wouldve done all that or have taken the time to hang out with you...jus comfront him and ask him if your annoying to him...and ask him if helikes you or not..
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From his body language it sounds like his pretty into you last night, but i don't think you should be be "hearing" what other people say. If he thinks something about you, he can tell you HIMself. Just maybe try talkng to him that will maybe work. <3
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