so this guy has been OBSESSED with me like you have no idea! (sometimes its a little freaky even...) and when i'm not with him and i'm like talking to him on the phone or something i like him, but when i'm actually with him i can't even describe how i feel! i don't even like touching or going near him! I mean, he is ugly but i don't think that's why. I hooked up with him and he likes me LOVES me actually but i REALLY don't want to have anything to do with him! WHAT DO I DO?! PS, i can't tell him that i don't like him. and also i'm bff with all his bffs so i can't be mean either otherwise everyone will get mad at me....! but hes DISGUSTING! i really really really really really reaylly reaylly really really don't like him!!!!!!!
First and foremost you have to stop leading him on and making him think that you like him as more than a friend.
I understand and commend you for not wanting to hurt his feelings by telling him how you really feel, but you're only going to hurt him more and possibly yourself if you keep this going. It sounds like his "attraction" to you could start to be a major problem. You need to nip this in the bud asap.
Dominicangrl123 answered Monday April 10 2006, 10:05 am: Ok well evidently your not happy with him and you really shouldn't be in a relationship when your not happy...I understand you dont want to hurt his feelings and all that but just tel him that you really need your space and that you would preffer just being friends with him...tell him that you dont want to ruin your friendship with him and that you think things are just moving a little to fast and that nothing really is going to change tell him he is still going to be your number one friend...thats what i would do so i hope this helps you hun....BE SAFE
missmissgurl answered Sunday April 9 2006, 6:28 pm: Tell him you don't feel the same just leave out he disgusting and ugly part. lol, I used to have the same thing, you've got to cut it off from the start before worse things happen......Good Luck [ missmissgurl's advice column | Ask missmissgurl A Question ]
x0advice4y3w answered Sunday April 9 2006, 4:14 pm: I would tell the kid the truth. I had the same problem as you before, and I realized it's kinda mean leading on guys. I would just be like "Hey ___ I'm very sorry." Just tell him how you feel. Don't have a bunch of your friends tell him, cause it hurts the worst to get told from other people. I hopee I helped.<3 [ x0advice4y3w's advice column | Ask x0advice4y3w A Question ]
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