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cheating
i think my boyfriend is cheating on me he went out and bought me a whole bunch of things and i think he does'nt want me to suspect anything when it comes to the phone we used to be alot but not alot if u know wat i mean but anyways now when i try to call him is phone is off or he presses end wich makes it go to voice mail and i call his home phone and i can hear him and another young girl in the backround i can tell that the girl is like 15 around his and my age but his room mate always answers and says he's not there. wat do you guys/grls think is he cheating on me or am i just being paranoed
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For something like this it's hard to say. i mean if your 15 why even think about going out with anybody? c'mon your 15 you should be concerned about school and other things besides boys. things like this will weigh you down emotionaly and will stay with you till you can't carry on. i congress. it's a possibility that he may or may not be cheating, him just buying you things probably mean he's still inlove with you cuase being a 15 year old they 'feel' like they're in love. If i were you i'd just call it off; 1) you're too young to be in a relationship 2) things get complicated around these years when hormones are churning up 3) school's damn more improtant than anything else, you only one shot.
There's no such thing as love, but there's no such thing as false hope either, hope this helps
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I would keep a close eye on him. It sounds like it's possible. If you have a vibe that he may be cheating, that means you don't completely trust him. I hope that he's not, but it sounds suspicious. Ask around, and keep your ears and eyes open to anything that might come up about him, ask anyone that he may be friends w/, guys and girls,if he's a trustworthy person. Good luck w/ that one.
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your not being paranoid and maybe you should ask him. talk to him about it. let him know youre worried and ask his friends if he has before. there isnt a lot you could do if he was cheating but its your choice but if it was up o me id drop him if hes not treating you right
kim
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ok theres major calls for consern here, you are deffinatley not paranoid. If you wanna find out who he's with you should drop by his house unexpectedly and if nothing much is going on when you do you should confront him and talk to him about it or talk to his room mate about it if your boyfriend gets all akward when you ask him.
You'll feel better when you get the truth out of him one way or another.
best of luck,
xshandix
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no your not being paranoid. There is reason for concern. I mean if he wont bother to talk to you then there is something fishy going on. What you can do and this might be sleezy but you want to know right? so, get a friend to drop by his house ever so often, and see who hes with. Then you know for sure. Other than that, talk to him, let him know whats on your mind. If all else fails, say goodbye to him. Harsh? maybe, But you say he might be cheating. This means you dont trust him 100%. Thus the relationship is not solid but based on iffy's. I hope I helped you somewhat.
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