WELL I know this may be kind of wierd but, I like this girl. I met her Online and that's it. We talk everyday and flirt all the time, She's even told me she likes girls also. I told her I had a crush and she wanted to know who it was and I lied to her saying it was my OTHER friend, but it was really her. I feel bad but not at the same time because...I don't know how she'll react. I keep dropping hints and everything but either she doesn't get it or doesn't want to get it. I'm a mess about this..cuz I really do like her. What should I do??
TragicGlamour answered Tuesday April 11 2006, 6:06 am: Be straight up with her! Be like, yeah I really like this girl she's amazingg, and when she says really who? Say YOU.
Be sweet and be honest. There's nothing sexier than that. And plus, you know her from the internet right? That is the easiest place to say things you wouldn't normally say flat out in person.
Communication is key in every relationship and trust me, weither she likes you or not, it will be so much better knowing than guessing. [ TragicGlamour's advice column | Ask TragicGlamour A Question ]
WhatsNotToL♥ve answered Tuesday April 11 2006, 2:07 am: Well I know you so I'll answer this. For one thing you never told me shes BI or gay to. But seriously you should tell her. I mean come on what's the worst that could happen. If she says no then go alright its all good we can still be friends.But if so hey you got yourself a new g.f. ;) But if no then hey its not the end of the world now is it? There's more fish in the sea. It's like w/every guy I like I think I like him alot then when he knows I like him he's a jerk & I get to see the REAL him & realize why did I like this fool to begin w/? You know what I mean? & it's good to tell the person get it off you chest. It's like this weird sad chain e-mail I got. It was this story about this girl who liked this guy at a record store so everyday or evey week she'd come in & buy a cd & never told him she liked him so one day she came in & he wasen't there she asked "Where's Johnny?" & the lady said " Oh didn't you know? He died. I'm sorry" the girl was crushed so she went home & she has this closet off all the upopend cd's & so she started to open them all & saw these little note in the cd's that he liked her to but since she never answered he thought she didn't like him. & it was the sadest story it's making me cry to write it but I think the moral was that if you don't go for it how do you know if you'll ever get that 2nd chance? Think about that story & relize that you have to do the right thing. :) [ WhatsNotToL♥ve's advice column | Ask WhatsNotToL♥ve A Question ]
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