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I like him, he likes her.....
I really like this guy but I found out he likes one of our other friends.
I'm not sure if she likes him, but she's doesn't seem to be discouraging him...
I don't know what to do.
She doesn't know I like him.
I only told our other friend. (since she kind of guessed so.)
But now I've stopped hugging and walking too close to both of them. I can't smile around either. I get a sick feeling.
I don't want to get in between them if they want to have a relationship.
Should I just avoid them? And not go hang around them at lunch and in between classes and after school?
I don't know.
I feel a lot better when away from the two but then all of them will think I hate them...
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I've been in this situation before doll and I have to say I regreted soooo much not telling him how I felt. He may like her but it doesn't mean he's married. It seems like you wanna avoid the whole thing and that's what I did, and in my case they ended up being very happy together but, I always regreted not telling him how I truely felt. What's the worse that could happen? He doesn't feel that way? If he doesn't, act like everythings ok and brush it off. Then you can both move on and stay friends. If he does than you two could end up being one anothers true love. But you'll never know by avoiding it all. Avoiding it could cause a loss of communication and friendship between you two which gives her an advantage if she kinda likes him.
Just tell him how you feel. You'll feel better knowing than guessing and secretly hurting.
Good luck sweetheart!
Glamour
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Honestly, you need to be honest. Tell your friends what's going on with you, and what's on your mind. It will help keep things less complicated. Even if your friend ends up with the guy, or no one does, it's good to do your part and be honest with everyone.
In my personal opinion, if you don't end up with him, don't let it get to you too much. I am guessing you are quite young, and there are many fish in the sea. Try focusing on school, spend time with friends, build good familial relationships, learn and grow as a human being. Try and discover what your talents are, what your interests are... take on new hobbies. Enjoy life to it's fullest, and keep a positive outlook.
Sometimes life is what you make of it. If this guy doesn't ever choose you, it's not the end of the world. You're a priceless jewel, and someday you will meet someone and you'll both geniunly enjoy each other's company, respect each other, and care for one another. Don't let anything destroy your joy!
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