I'm dating a guy and I'm not shy at telling him when I want him, want to see him, or wanna talk to him, but I can't help but wonder if maybe he'd want me more if I backed off a little and played a lil hard to get. Tips?
JerseyGirl819 answered Tuesday April 11 2006, 4:25 pm: playing hard to get is extremely risky but guys tend to like it because they like challenges. But dont go too over the top because they will get mad. But since your already together I dont recommend doing it because he wants you for you so you shouldnt change. Just dont be all over him 24/7, and everything will be just fine [ JerseyGirl819's advice column | Ask JerseyGirl819 A Question ]
4everMyself2 answered Tuesday April 11 2006, 12:22 pm: I don't recommend playing hard to get.
girlygirl answered Tuesday April 11 2006, 10:49 am: hard to get usually works... when we like guys it seems like we like the ones that have to be chased!
Just be careful... be yourself, but once in awhile have another plan, to spend time with family or friends. Your whole life doesn't have to be about him and then when you are together you have lots of different things and experiences to talk about. [ girlygirl's advice column | Ask girlygirl A Question ]
evil-devil12 answered Tuesday April 11 2006, 7:23 am: NO!!! dont play hard to get i think guys really hate that!!! than maby he will think you dont like him anymore or something! (guys are weird :-) but seriously just be yourself that is the best you can do!
NinjaNeer answered Tuesday April 11 2006, 4:06 am: Don't play hard to get; only silly manipulative girls do that! If you're a nice person, and you let him know you enjoy your time with him, then he'll like you even more, if he's not a complete and utter idiot. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
xEVYx answered Tuesday April 11 2006, 1:43 am: It's ok to play hard to get, but only to a certain extent. Don't flirt around with other guys while doing so. The guy might see that you're attracted to the other guys and not him and he might just give up. good luck!
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