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hopeless flirt
how do i flirt sucessfully with a woman. i am a green leaf when it comes down to flirting. mst of the time my attempts fail me, i want to be able to make a woman laugh and attract her some how. im almost 7ft tall. that at times hinders me to. your tips and advice are very much welcomed. thanks
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If your goal here is to meet a woman and eventually have a wonderful relationship with her, flirting is not the way to start that sort of endeavor. Flirting usually leads to shallow dating relationships that don't last long, but burn out quick. Anyone can flirt and throw around suggestive comments and compliments, it's getting to know someone for who they really are that makes the foundation for a great, lasting relationship.
But, where do you meet someone!?!... and if you don't flirt to open conversation, then how!?! I know, this seems like the toughest part, but it doesn't have to be.
Here's an idea. Figure out what sort of things you are interested in, and get involved! You like hiking, find a local group of hikers and meet up with them for one of their hikes. Like going to see plays or movies? Find a group that goes out together to enjoy these often. Perhaps you can visit some churches or other such places, get involved, learn new things, grow as a person, make new friends, etc. Many have singles groups that get together and do some great activities together. You never know, you might meet someone there too. Whatever your interests, you can get involved somewhere in your community where you can grow as a person and make some great friends in the process. Most likely, you'll meet some really great females, of whom you share some interests with, too.
Doing it this way isn't all that bad. Getting to know someone within a group, or as friends first, is usually the best way to really see who they are. In such circumstances they're usually not trying so hard to put only their best foot forward, like usually people do in the dating arena, but are truly expressing who they are.
Stay confident, remember there's someone out there for everyone, live life, enjoy yourself, and you'll most likely find a partner along the way: someone you can get to know without the games of flirting and dating, but instead through living, really getting to know one another, and enjoying one another's company.
Hope this helps. :)
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ok well I would say be yourself. & I know your gonna hear this a million & 1 times but its true. b/c seriously if your not yourself then who are you? & pretty soon people will find that out & thats not good is it? Just show that special girl how romanic or funny or witty you can be & I bet you'll be reeling then in no prob.
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Please abandon the terrible pickup lines if you use them; nothing is worse than being asked if it hurt when you fell from heaven :P
I know that my friends and I are generally suspicious of men who flirt by commenting on our appearances, or some other superficiality, as we're wary of shallow men. If you can have a meaningful, interesting conversation, then you're ahead of the game!
Be yourself, be genuine, be interesting!
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Just be yourself and be confident, girls like that. the harder you try, most of the time the worse the flirting is- just go with it. if you don't act weird about your height, most likely the girls won't either. preferably i like taller guys & im sure a lot of other girls do too.
♥ Evy
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Start with a compliment about something unique. Like her eyes, eyebrows, clothing, hands, etc... Then if she says something back sweetly, engage in a conversation with her and maybe some of her friends as well. That should get your foot in the door...
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