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aggh. GUYS.
Alriiight SO. Theres this guy I reallyyy like and hes like totally sexy. Weve gone out before, and I dumped him for another guy. I totally regret it because the guy I dumped him for I also broke up with. I want to go back to the first guy and I think he is a little mad at me. I dont remember his number because I never put it in my phone, and he hasn't gotten online in forever. I dont know what to do. I really miss talking to him, so if he gets on what should I say to make him forgive me? I have said like I love you again and I broke up with the guy I dumped him for but we dont seem satisfied. I really want him back! What should I doooo? Thanks in advance! lol
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Go and see the boy you want to get back with in person, so then he knows your being serious. Tell him straight that you miss him and that the boy you dumped he for turned out to be a complete jerk and it made you think how good of a boyfriend he was and how much you like him. That usely works for guys. Good Luck!
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well go talk to him in person say that you regert dumping him and that you saw how great he really are and for sure say that its ok for you to be mad at me i deserve it
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Well... Hearts are very delicate things, esp. when I was in the position of your ex. You shouldve never broken up with him for another guy. You shouldve looked at it before of how you wouldve felt if he did that to you for another girl. But it's too late now, and no matter how hard this seems you need to give him time to heal and see if he will open up to you even if its just as friends for now, or if he doesnt want to open up theres nothing you can do. It depends on how hurt he is, and you dont want to push him or force him because that could make the relationship between you worse. I hope ive helped and I am here for if you have any more questions
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Ok I agree with telling him all that stuff Lola says to say but talking is not the answer. Actions speak louder than words. You need to show him that you care. Think of something that you can do for him as a silent gesture. I also want to make clear that the more you talk or not talk is not good either because he will consider you to be a stalker and run from you. You need to choose wisely what you will do and execute your plan. A little talk and a lot of action and does not include humping the boy's leg.
Good luck!!
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Hey,
First of all, you were really wrong in dumping him like that, and i am sure that if you put yourself in his postition, you'd be totally heart-broken, and upset.
But i guess you already know that, so i will just cut to the chase and tell you my point of view. First of all, try to get his number from anyone of your freinds if you can. But either ways, on the internet or the phone, just go ahead and tell him that you are really really sorry and that you miss him so much and love him like crazy, and that you think that dumping him was the stupidest action that you had ever done in your life, and that you are ready to make it up to him. Then tell him, that you really do treasure and want to be with, and ask him to picture all the fun you could have together, just fooling around, making around and being there for each other. And tell him that you don't blame him for being so mad at you, but then again some people make mistakes and it takes them a while to realize how wrong they were.
So try to tell him all that, and everything else in your heart that you want to tell him, and if you have any other problems, troubles, worries or concerns, then please be free to contact me.
Goodluck:)
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