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How will I know
okay I really like this boy but, I can't describe what I feel for him... Is it love? or just a 13 year old's crush?
TY in advance Jeni Lots Of love
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i beleive its love.
i honestly dont think age matters like people make it seem.
watch the notebook.
there only 17
and thats like three or four years older then us.
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Nobody falls in love when they're 13.
13 year olds just too young to understand the real concept of love.
If you can't decide what you feel for him, then you're obviously not in love.
Are you dating him?
If you're not, then sorry hun, it can't possibly be love. Love is when two people feel the same way about each other, learn to trust each other, and have been together for a while.
You probably just like him alot, and are confused about the difference between like and love.
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To be honest, I don't think there is anyone who could tell you. I know that doesn't really help, sorry about that but it's the truth.
You know, when I was 12/13, I truly believed I was in love with this guy I was at school with and when things went a little awry and I knew I would never get to see him again, I was totally crushed. Then, I met the guy I'm with now and let me tell you, you know when you're in love because there is nothing in the world that compares to the intensity of the feeling and feeling as I do about him made me realise that I had never REALLY been in love before.
What I'm saying is that although it is possible to love when you are 13 years old, when it is 'true' love, you will know it and you won't need to ask anyone. However, that doesn't mean you can't make the most of what you feel for this guy now and my advice ALWAYS is that if you really like a guy and he's single, go for it. You never know when the window of opportunity will close and even if you do get rejected, that will be a lot better than years of wondering 'What if'?
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ok i have the same problem and i think its just a crush because you cant love him unless your dating or going out with him because then you would truly know him. hope i helped.
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Jeni,
To tell you the truth, to me it just seems like a 13 year old crush. Because you can really tell what you feel for him. If you actually knew deep inside yourself that you really liked him, then I would call it love, but to me it just seems like a little crush.
Sincerely,
Antonino Carmelo
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Youre 13 go to the movies and stop playing house. You will get their someday and don't worry about all of this love stuff, its complicated enough for adults. Have fun being you and hanging out and if this boy likes you, you will know.
Love takes time and that little word is thrown out way too much. I hope that this boy likes you too and I hope you hold hands on the beach and play volleyball. And don't forget to build a sandcastle.
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Even yourself say that you just like him. maybe you should just hang out with this boy and get to know him. it could up being more then just a friendship.
the people below arent really correct. Love is not always followed by marriage and a 13 year old can find love.
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If you're only 13, i bet it's just puppy love. I don't think he can be your true love. After all, you're only 13. I would wait awhile, at least a few years until you decide whether you are really in love with him. If it's meant to be, you'll end up together. Hope this helps.
-cindy <3
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Hey,
I never believed in 13 year olds who actually love,because love usually is followed by marriage, so that only goes with adults.
But in your situation, its usually to like someone or have a crush on him or admire his looks or personality. But 13 year olds and love never come in the same sentence.
Other than that, i could give you some tips to make a step forward with this guy. yOu can go up to him and get to know him better, and know his likes and dislikes, and just make short normal conversations with him. Its like your making him your friend. Then when you do that, each one of you will know if they really do like each other or not, and then maybe if he really liked you, he would take a step forward and ask you out.
But by the way, don't just get so close to him, and like him so much and be crazy about him, and then at the end, he wouldn't ask you out or something. But just keep it cool and natural and things will go smoothly. Goodluck:)
And if you need any other help or advice, then please be free to contact me.
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