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i need help: She lied to me
k i got this friend we been friends since school. Then a found out she lied to me about tons of stuff. During summer break she calls me to tell me she was sorry. We are friends kinda. Do you think I made a mistake by taking her out.
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well no. i wouldnt regret it because what she did wasnt right..but i would talk to her. and if shes truly sorry..id forgive her. BEST OF LUCK! :]
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I wouldn't put up with it. You can make better friends and if I were you I would!!
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i don't truly believe in what the person below me said "once a liar, always a liar." this may be true in some cases, but if she is genuinely sorry she probably changed. everyone makes mistakes, and i believe in second chances if they're sorry. i know it may be hard to forgive because it was "tons of stuff". it really depends on what the stuff is. anyway, that wasn't your question so sorry for rambling :] no, i dont believe you made a mistake by taking her out. you have to confront your friend when stuff like that happens & its their part to try and make it better by apologizing. as long as you did in a calm & mature way, it wasn't a mistake. how would you ever be able to grow in a friendship if you didn't recognize each other's mistakes and try and fix them? she may have never changed if you hadn't talked to her about it.
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Their is this saying, once a lier always a lier. But if you think your friend is truly sorry and she promises never to do it again, then i guess everyone desirved a second chance in life...
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Lying is one of my major pet peeves but I also believe in second chances. How will she ever be able to try and make it up to you? I don't think you made a mistake, I personally think you are a strong person to be able to forgive her. After all, God wouldn't have created erasers if we weren't supposed to make mistakes. Hope this helps.
-cindy <3
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Maybe you should give her a second chance since she apologized but you did make a mistake for taking her out since all she does is lie all the time.If you forgive her,let her know that if she starts lieing to you again that there won't be any friendship between the two of you.
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taking her out?
Im assuming that means becoming her friend.
If it means that then i dont think you made a mistake. Its not youre fault she lied to you.
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