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im so upset all my boyfriends friends think they can do what ever they want to me my boyfriend always hits me and i cant tell my parents or the cops my boyfriend said he will hit me till i cant walk anymore please someone give me advice
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you need to tell someone you could be putting yourself in danger by staying with him
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you really need to tell someone you can trust because yuor boyfriend could really hurt you if you stay in this relationship! its just a matter of time before he does!
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your bf cant get away with this!!
your options: 1. get beat up all the time
2. tell your parents or the cops,
and have the beating stop.
yes, he may have said he would beat you until you cant walk anymore if you did that, but do you think that if the cops or your parent found out about this, that he would be able to get anywhere near you? tell somebody!!
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sorry to tell you. your boyfriend sweetie has to go. you need to tell ur parents that he hits you, cause thats not what boyfriends are supposed to do, and thats harrassment and who knows what else could happen..not to scare you..but you really should tell them before things get worse or too serious.. hope i helpedddd
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Tell your parents. I don't give a fuck about what your boyfriend says. Are you aware that if you don't do something about this, you can end up being raped, or even killed for that matter? You need support and you need to tell your parents. Your parents can tell the police and they will make sure that no one will ever hurt you again. If you want to stay safe, then tell someone trustworthy. That's about the only way to keep yourself out of harms way.
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talk to someone about it who you can trust you should break up with him because he could seriously hurt you. hope i helped.
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If your boy friend is hitting you get out of that relationship, before it really do lead to him killing you, listen i believe in not sugar coating things,you said that boyfriend said he will hit you till you cant walk anymore , so you you would rather stay with him so he can hurt you then taking a chance and tell your mother and the cops.take a chance and save you
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break up with him then run away
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You HAVE to tell the cops... they will put him in jail and you can get a restraining order. If you don't he will just keep hitting you...honestly you have to tell the cops... you don't have to tell your parents because they might try and hunt him down and won't know what they are doing and they could get hurt... the cops will handle it in a professional way and noone will get hurt. Just think...you might say the wrong thing or give him the wrong look and you could be dead... please think about this
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Tell your parents. They will care about you more then he ever will. You dont deserve it and your parents will protect you. He can go to jail or be put on probation possibly so i wouldnt worry about it. If need be, you could switch schools, if he attends the same. Restraining order ? yes. if you need anything message me and ill give you my screen name.
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Girl you should just tell your parents because if you don't the next thing you know your boyfriend would try to kill you if you can't do that than take him to the Maury Show than his act will get straight.
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are you kidding me? FUCK THAT no girl deserves to get hit by a guy leave the ass hole he obviously doesn't deserve you and if you're not gonna report him fine whatever your choice but don't do this to yourself. seriously.
here read this.
Girls if you aren't being treated right by a guy,
don't wait for him to change. Ditch his sorry disgrace-to-the-male-population ass , && find
someone who will treat you with utter respect,
who will honor your morals && someone who
will make you smile when you're at your lowest
oh one more thing.
listen to this song too
it's by The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus it's called Face Down here's the lyrics.
Hey girl you know you drive me crazy
one look puts the rhythm in my hand.
Still I'll never understand why you hang around
I see what's going down.
Cover up with make up in the mirror
tell yourself it's never gonna happen again
you cry alone and then he swears he loves you.
Do you feel like a man
when you push her around?
Do you feel better now as she falls to the ground?
Well I'll tell you my friend, one day this world's going to end
as your lies crumble down, a new life she has found.
A pebble in the water makes a ripple effect
every action in this world will bear a consequence
If you wade around forever you will surely drown
I see what's going down.
I see the way you go and say your right again,
say your right again
heed my lecture
Do you feel like a man
when you push her around?
Do you feel better now as she falls to the ground?
Well I'll tell you my friend, one day this world's going to end
as your lies crumble down a new life she has.
One day she will tell you that she has had enough
its coming round again.
(repeat)
Do you feel like a man, when you push her around?
Do you feel better now as she falls to the grown?
Well I'll tell you my friend, one day this world's going to end
as your lies crumble down, a new life she has.
Face down in the dirt she says, this doesn't hurt she says I finally had enough..
(repeat)
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Sweety, You have a serious problem on your hands. First of all i absolutely do not believe in men hitting women nor do i believe in women hitting men. There is only one exception that i make to the rules. If you want to be man enough to hit a man then be man enough to take it. If you are man enough to hit a women then you need to be man enough to get beat like a man. But back to the point. i am not trying to scare you by any means but this is where it starts. At the end most women in your situation later end up missing or dead wether it's one month or 50 years. You can not let this continue. There are plenty of anonymous resources out there that you can report this to. if he has threatened you then you have bit off more than you can chew in this relationship and for him to allow any other people to do this to you is more beyond just his control over you. Again this needs to stop right away. That doesn't mean run to your parents or the cops I don't want you to get hurt anymore than you have and i am deeply sorry for the pain that have already indured. To start off you need to slowly back away. Stop taking calls. stop seeing him so often. Don't just drop him he'll get suspicious but slowly let him out of your life. If you go to school together don't go around him as much. Tell your friends that you need to stay occupied as much as possible there is no need to tell them about this so you won't be afraid. Keep busy, keep good company near you. If you would like get a tape recorder that you can hide in your pocket or purse somewhere he won't see and keep it on record when you are with eacother. This will help provide you with evidence in the future. Get him to tell you again while recording it that if you tell what he will do to you. Once you get that on tape you have everything that you need. Then tell one of your friends that you can trust will not tell anyone. That friend will help you be your way out. That friend can be the one to report the situation to the police using the recorded conversation that you have. This way you are not reporting someone else is for you. And they will have the threat this will put you in a protective state by the police department. And you won't have to worry about him causing harm to you. Well there is always a worry. But you will find yourself safer with the polices help because you will have proof that he is serious. They will take this very serious and help you. or there is the anonymous resources that you can use. They can be found online and also in your phone book. There is a womens batter, hotline. they can give you all kinds of information and help. You may not hink so but now you are in a state that you are considered a batteed and abused women. He can not do this to you. It is illegal. You have rights and you alone are the only one that can shoose wether or not you make a step if you ever need to talk about this or need help further I will more than glad to help you. You can email me at cangel3102@yahoo.com. If you email me about this i will give you my phone number and I will be there to talk. This is more than just advice i will be here to help you and female in this situation needs help and people need to be there to do it. So please get into contact with me..
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OMG! you need to report it as soon as possible! You may be scared about what he'll do to you, but you will feel so much better when you tell someone. this is serious. REport it
XoXo
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oh my gosh! you need to get some help and dont listen to what he says. he has no right to hit you nor should his friends think they can do whatever. he is probably threating you not to tell anyone because he is scared. you need to tell your parents and have them go with you to tell the cops. remember just stay away from him and dont feel guilty that he is going to get in trouble because he deserves it. let him get taken and put away so he can never hurt you again. i hope i helped!
-manda
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no no no...he is just telling you this so you wont tell and get himself into some trouble....so here is what you need to do...tell your parents....they can help keep him away from you....then you need to tell the cops...they can put him away for doing this....then he wont be able to hurt you anymore
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wow are you serious..you dont need tht. you should get out of that relationship, its bad enough your boyfrined does it, but his frineds too. not uh..you need to get out. no guy will treat a gurl like tht. i really think you should tell your parents or the cops. if they knew they could do sumtin bout it and your boyfirned will never do it to you again. or like i said if you dont want to do tht just leave you have to. you cant be treated like this.
do the right thing..hope i helped..and good luck
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omg are you serious?!?is this like a prank question or something?this guy is not a boyfriend!!hes an ass ok?how can you ever let a guy as much as touch you?!?!hes taken totall advantage of you!!just because he has a frikin penis doenst mean he can rule the world with it and go off marking you as his territory cus your not.hes obviously taken control of you because he knows your totally obssesed with him!!duuh go tell the cops!!and your parents before he breaks your bones!!your making a terrible mistake now bby not telling anyone because one day your parents will be looking for you and will not find you home cuz youll be dead of how much this kids hitting you.wheres your personality????wheres your dignity woman.pull yourself together!!did he by chance leave a bruise on you when he hit you???im actually hoping he did because if he did then you can go show the police and tell them how hes been hiting you and truuust me he wont be able to touch one of your hairs after.ok listen to me this is what you do exactly after you read my advice to ya......you sit by yourself a lil thinking of how you were his doormat and how that is about to change!!!think of all the pain hes caused you,he doesnt love you!!!he just wants to be in control of someone so he can go off and brag to his freinds!!hes being a dick to you to make up for what he doesnt have!!think of all the fear and depression hes caused you and because of him you werent able to pay attention in your studies!!then gather up your courage and call up your boyfreind!!you have to!!if you dont do this youll never change!!call him and tell him exactly this......(be sweet thru the whole call...itll annoy the living shit outta him) hi baby....i missed you...oh and by the way i called to say im dumping you(at this poin hell be all yelling and cursing at you)say this in a sweet and not angry tone....i dont care curse as much as you want youre not gonna tell me what to do you mofo you want to come hit me??i dare you!!come hit me bi***!!oh look at that jhonny(or whatever his name is) is mad hes gonna cry because he just lost the best thing thats ever happened to him,your being a dic* to me to make up for what you dont have and im dumping you bye bye have a nice day...and hang up and go running to your parents and tell them everything....if you dont you will regret this all your life because hes not only going to scar your skin but he will also leave a scar deep within you and youll be scared later on of all guys.after you tell your parents expect your "x boyfreind" to do something crazy like come to your house...it could happen and if by any chance your parents arent home after you call your boyfreind dumping him then run off to the police station right away and tell them everything.your boyfreind will regret the day he was born.and please dont tell me you still love this guy...because im sorry to say he doesnt love you one bit!!obviously getting over him will be easy because when you remember all the pain hes caused you you will be like....what the hell was i thinking?!i guarentee this will work and even if he gets a chance to ever hit you again pray that it bruises so you can go to the cops with even more proof....look this is how i want you to go in on the cops doing.....go in with black liquid eyeliner and cryy your ass off and tell them and everything will be jusssst fine!!i think itll be better to go with your parents though
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Dont listen to what your boyfriend says! You need to tell someone and get away from him! If hes threatning you like this.. i dont think you should have him as a boyfriend! If you dont tell anybody things could get a lot worse! He could end up beating you! You definetly need to tell someone hunny! Good luck!
~Ashley~
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i know where your coming from hun and you need to tell someone right away. he isn't going to hurt you.. you need to tell someone now it is so important that you do. don't let anyone every hit you or treat you wrong... if they do tell a parent no matter what the other person my say. he is threatening you and hurting you... thats not right!
-Bess
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i dont care what your boyfriend said.. as scared as you are, you HAVE to tell someone. things could get way worse and he could end up hittin you till you cant walk even if you dont tell anyone. you need to tell at least your parents or you can go to the cops if you want a restraining order on him. its serious & you rlly do need to tell someone, even if its hard. good luck!
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