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6 month present for my bf.
im 17/f and i have been with my bf (17/m) for almost 6 months. we are completely in love and very serious. this was MY idea just to clear it up.
being that we are going to be so serious and before we nkow it even living together ..i figure we are still young and many people make the mistake of marrying a high school sweetheart without exploring other people. so my idea is for our 6 months we each get sexual with another person. do you know anyone who has done this? how did it work out? whenever i think about him with somenoe else its so weird! and the same for him thinking about me with someone else. this can really bring us to be a lot more open and trusting..but im also afraid i might feel hurt..thinking about another girl pleasing him and making love to him kinda gets me upset..but then i think how i will get the same thing so i feel better..i guess right now i am 50/50. what do you think about my idea..being with someone else for a day?
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iT WAS YOOR iDEA TO GET SERiOUS WiTH YOOR BOYFRiEND, AND iF YOO WANT TO START CHANGiNG YOOR MiND NOW iT SHOWS YOO DONT WANT TO BE SERiOUS. THERE ARE SEVERAL WAYS WERE YOOR RELETiONSHiP COULD END UP iF YOO START GETTiNG SEXUAL WiTH ANOTHER PERSON..
YOOR BOYFRiEND WOULD REALiSE THE OTHER GiRL HES HAViNG A SEXUAL RELETiONSHiP WiTH iS BETTER iN BED THAN YOO AND DECiDES YOOR NOT WORTH iT.
OR..YOOR BOYFRiEND WiLL REALiSE YOOR HiS EVERYTHiNG AND YOOR THE ONLY GiRL 4 HiM.
iT COULD GO EiTHER WAY NONE KNOWS BUT iF i WAS YOO I WOUDNT PUT YOOR RELETiONSHiP ON THE LiNE, AS LONG AS YOO AND YOOR BOYFRiEND ARE HAPPY YOO HAVE NOTHiNG TO WORRY ABOOT =)
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I've been married 31 years to my husband and we were married at your age. I have to agree with others who think its a bad idea. Why risk your relationship?
If you both feel this is something you have to do in order to strengthen your relationship...I think your relationship may be in trouble. You will be hurt by this..how could you not be? Don't do it. :)
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don't do it... if you want to be serious that is no way to do it. that doesn't make a relationship stronger it kills it! the two main things to make a relationship work are:
1. trust- without that there is nothing if.. for example if he doesn't trust you and feels like he needs to call you every single hour to check up on what your doing.. thats not a relationship thats somewhat stalkerish.
2. communication- you need to tell each other what is going on and be there for one another through hard times especially.
-Bess
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i don't think that marrying your high school sweetheart without exploring other people is a bad idea. obviously if you marry them, then it's because you love them and you don't feel the need to explore other people. i think that if you two love each other so much, then you shouldn't spend this special day or celebrate it with other people. you should be celebrating it with each other, togther
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Personally, I think it's a terrible idea. Why would you want to want to risk hurting your relationship and the guy you love??
I think if you even have an inkling that this will hurt your feelings and your relationship in the long run then it probably will.
I have never tried anything like what you are considering... but just to let you know: I have been with my husband since I was your age (6 years ago,) and we are still together and still happy. I understand your point about marrying one's high school sweetheart, but I don't think it always ends badly. As long as you are both on the same page about what you want out of the relationship, and you are both committed to making it work - it certainly can.
Don't do anything you think you might regret ;)
Hope that helps!
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If you both think it's a bad idea, and if you are truely in love with HIM, and both of you are serious about each other, then why would you want to have another person just to be sexual with??
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