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Hey my name is michelle and iam 36 years old and my son who is autistic is always spending the night at my mom's house and he never wants to come home and i miss him what should I do?
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If you miss him, mabey see a movie with him and then mabey take some time off work so you can spend the night at your mother's house for a few night and in the prosses, try to convince him to come home.
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Is there a reason as to why he dosen't want to come home, but rather stay at your mom's house?
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You simply make him come home with you. You are the mom and he is the child. It makes no difference that he is autistic he still needs to
come home every night the same as any other child. Don't treat him any differently. :)
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Hey! Maybe have things around your house for him to do! Set up games or something that will occupy him, so he'll want to stay & be having fun. If you don't want to do that, try taking him somewhere fun, like miniature golfing (idk how old he is, sorry), or the movies, the park, etc. Make the enviornment fun for him, and he'll want to stay. Or you could invite your mom to come along, or come to your house, maybe he would like that.
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well, make sure that you assure you're son of how much you love him and that you want to spend time with him. tell him that you have a suprise for him for when he gets home. make fun things for him to do. i don't know how old he is, but if he's very young, like a toddler, do things like building a tent out of blankets and have like a "camping trip" in there with video games and everything. if he's older, there's still a lot of fun things to do with older kids/teenagers. play cards with him, tell jokes
hope i helped
*muaz*
xoxo
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Remember that you are in charged. I know you want the best for your son, and you don't want to upset him, no parent wants to. But sometimes you just need to draw the line. Make him come home and maybe he will like it more then at your mom's house. Don't bribe him because that isn't very fair. Or, you can ask your mom to come spend the night one night, that may help also. Just remember that you are in charged and bringing him home will be the best for him.
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