OK me and my friend have told eachother everything,
and secrets? never told to anyone.
So one day she asks me, Can I tell you a secret and I'm like sure, and she's like you cant tell anyone.
But one her other friends gave her two ciggartes! and I asked her "Are you gonna use it?" and she's like I dont know. But you have to do it with me. she said and I didnt say anything. I dont know. Shes like so will you and i said SURE!! why! I DONT KNOW! I was stupid! b/c Im not the type of person who stands up for hreself very often. I mean its just a ciggeret. it wouldent hurt me to have just one? would it??
sweetjewel answered Tuesday September 5 2006, 9:20 pm: you shouldnt do anything you dont want to do. shes your friend, im sure shell understand if you dont smoke it. smoking is a bad and expensive habit and altho rare it can be addicting but just smoking one [ sweetjewel's advice column | Ask sweetjewel A Question ]
tXBLONDiE08 answered Tuesday September 5 2006, 9:03 pm: one ciggarett wont hurt you... but.. you shouldnt do that if you dont want to.. like. if your doing it to make her happy.. it kinda makes you seem like a pushover.. ( no offence!! ) if i were you.. i would just be like.. naaaa.. ask someone else to.. i hate the way they smell.. or make up a dumb excuse if u cant say that you dont want to!!
good luck! [ tXBLONDiE08's advice column | Ask tXBLONDiE08 A Question ]
xTakemeawayox answered Tuesday September 5 2006, 8:43 pm: umm well from experiene one kind of got me doing more and more. its addicting, unless you can control how many you take. but hurting you in a health way, nah i dont think it should just possibly getting addictied can affect you greatly. ive been on and off since i was 11 and im 15 almost 16 and recently quit 5 months ago and its hard. but dont get started its not worth it at all.
Nobodys_Girl answered Tuesday September 5 2006, 7:59 pm: No, not to have one. But sometimes one smoke can lead to another & another. When you get addicted it can hurt you. & You can't say after one smoke, you KNOW you won't get addicted, Many think that too. But sometimes people are wrong.
Smoking is gernally un-attractive. & your friend isn't that great of a friend to say that you should try with her, or for taking the smokes. [ Nobodys_Girl's advice column | Ask Nobodys_Girl A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Tuesday September 5 2006, 7:54 pm: no-- you cannot get addicted off of one cigarette. think about this. one cigg leads to two, which goes on & on. you do not want to do this. starting to smoke is how people get addicted & it sometimes cannot be avoided. if you smoke a cigg with your friend [& you truly dont want to] everytime she goes to smoke one, she'll invite you with her most likely. stand up for yourself & explain how you don't want to smoke, but you'll go with her. it can do major damage in the long run. you have to stand up for yourself in situations like these. you don't want to be stuck in this situation. you can also get in a lot of trouble & the smell stays on you for awhile.
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