Question Posted Saturday September 9 2006, 11:32 am
i'm giong out with this guy and he is always alot diffrent when he is around his friends. he always ignores me and doesnt hang out with me, what do i do...or say to him?
pinkpong answered Saturday September 9 2006, 9:28 pm: well, i look at it this way- dating is just a search for who youre going to marry someday, right? you weed through the bad ones till you get to thegood one? well, then unless oyu want this man to be your husband and treat you like thid way forever, then id get rid of him. once a jerk in this kind of way, always a jerk. guys will NOT admit that they act diffrent in front of their friends, even if they know they are doing it. [ pinkpong's advice column | Ask pinkpong A Question ]
PRPrincess14 answered Saturday September 9 2006, 8:22 pm: If he acts like that around your friends when you are around and he ignores yo that means he is SHADY and is not ready to have girlfriend and that also means that he is embarrased so I suggest for you break up with him before he breaks up with you or jus talk to him about him ask him why???? [ PRPrincess14's advice column | Ask PRPrincess14 A Question ]
Jodieee answered Saturday September 9 2006, 6:19 pm: Most guys are like that.
They change the way the act when they are with their friends.
They always want to act all cool in front of their friends.
And I bet when its just you and him hes all sweet again right?
Its like off the movie Grease lol.
Anywho..if hes like that..hes probably not worth your time..guys like that are immature, and sometimes they grow out of it..but some guys dont..some guys are dicks forever.
So I would just talk to him and say "You dont act the same when your with your friends. You seem like a different person when you are with them..you ignore me and I dont like it."
And if he is a good boyfriend he will try to change..if he isnt..he wont try to change and you should dump him and find yourself a better guy. [ Jodieee's advice column | Ask Jodieee A Question ]
greenlalablue answered Saturday September 9 2006, 4:58 pm: I think its either one of two things.
Either he's a little embarrased about it in front of his friends or he's afraid to be too clingy.
If you think it might the embarrassment thing maybe try to get to know his friend with or without him there. But dont do that too much if he's the jealous type.
If you think its the clingy thing then tell him that you enjoy being around him and stuff like that.
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