Question Posted Saturday September 9 2006, 11:37 am
ok here's the thing, there's this one guy, who lives in a foreign country, who i see once a year.. and i've become obsessed with the though of seducing him! like i can't stop thinking about what will happen when we finally meet, how im gonna kiss him and do things to make him think im sexy, how im gonna make him shiver and want me soo badly.. im scared though, it feels like im jinxing it by thinking like this, like im maybe not even gonna meet him, or that he wont find me sexy at all, or that everything i planned just goes wrong.. you´know??
so how do i stop these thoughts? is it even possible? and HOW (if possible) can i get him to think this way about me? haha like how do i put these kinda sexy thoughts in HIS head too.. ??
thanks ppl!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Tammy answered Saturday September 9 2006, 5:13 pm: CHILL OUT! Push the thoughts to the back of your mind and go to a friends house. The fun will keep your mind off of him for a while. Keep going on with your life, start paying a sport like soccer, or get a hobby. When you think about him just call a friend and chat, you'll stop thinking about him after repeating this process for a while. Just don't call the same friend all the time, it would get annoying for them, and you'd run out of things to say. Eventually when you see him again, you can just act normal. No one likes a cling freak!!! Act cool, lay hard to get, but give him subtle sighns that you like him. You'll find yourself enjoying your free time instead of wasting it on someone who you wont see agan for a whole year!
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