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the other girl??
heres my situation..i been wit my bf for like ever and now all of a sudden his ex has been startin shit wit me..posting blogs on myspace about me callin me a stalker and all and writin stuff everywhere online about me and textin my bf and stuff all the time tryin to get bak wit him and he tells her to stop all the time and then after that she comes and starts crap wit me..i jus duno what to do and she told me now that he was wit her on saturday and the only thing is my bf wasnt wit me til saturday nite so im not sure..he told me he saw her on saturday but only to pay bak sum money he borrowed from her and thats how she knows i wasnt wit him and shes jus sayin that to start crap wit me but i am jus so unsure who to believe anymore..she runs to my bf and tells him im startin wit her and then he comes to me tellin me what she said and all and then i defend myself of course and he believes me kinda i guess and then she starts again..i jus duno if i should believe her or him..i kno it sounds badd but i think no matter what he does to me i cant let him go..hes amazing and i jus wish he would tell me the truth..unless he already has..im so unsure nemore..i duno if he cheated or not..so unsure..what do u think?..if u wanna kno more jus tell me and ill tell you nething you wanna kno..i just need advice though..this is tearing me up and its not like i dont trust him because i do but still when she says stuff to me it makes me think..i been hurt real badd before by sum1 and im not tryin to go through it again..
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Sometimes it is easier to forget about the past. I would forget about what happened and kind of start over. You should just ignore his ex-girlfriend, she is just jealous.
~*Brianna*~
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Well if I heard the excuse "I had to pay my ex girlfriend money I borrowed from her" I would think he was lying. Why didn't he pay her back when they broke up? Why is he all of a sudden "paying her back" when she starts calling. I wouldn't believe it. But, you know your boyfriend more than I do. Just tell him that it bothers you that he's talking to her and she's trying to break you guys up. If he loves you, he would stop talking to her. Now for her, just ignore her.
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i think yoou should just ignore her. and she just wants to make you mad at your b/f so she can get back with him. just dont believe her && believe what your b/f says... dont let anything go to your head tho about what she says. you will be okay..
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I think that you should just ignore her, she just wants to get u mad at your bf, and if you guys really like/love eachother, then you should not let her interfere.
i hope i helped:)
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Don't feel bad about it the same thing has happened to me before. If it was me i would kick that little bitches ass but belive me that won't solve anything.
If your boyfriend says he didn't do anything with her you should belive him. But don't upsess over it and not trust him because that will lead to problems of their own. Has he ever done anything that would give you the reason not to trust him? I would just talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel. Talking can solve most of your promlems. Tell me how it goes and if you still have problems i will always have more advice
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