well i liked this one guy and im trying to let go.
but hes gorgeous.
and i didnt know him but i kinda did.
im trying to move along with a different guy
he has long flipped out blonde hair
with blue eyes
i think he thinks of me as a freinds with benifits..
i dont really know him eaither
and i cant let go of the other guy
but i know he doesnt really like me
because he beleves these rumors about me
im not a slut
i just want someone to love and be my boyfreind.
but i cant let go of the guy i need to let go of..
does anyone have any advice
thank you so much
lilly_pads79 answered Tuesday June 13 2006, 4:23 pm: It is a complex sitation. You have to decide between the boys. My advice is to tell the first guy how you feel, and if he responds well then there you go, but if he doesn't then you've must likely got guy #2.
UHOHxOMFG answered Tuesday June 13 2006, 4:18 pm: if you dont know either of them that well then dont worry about it. the one who thinks of you as friends with benefits, well thats all there will be is constantly making-out and crap if you guys would go out. but honestly i dont want to make it sound like go and mess around with every guy but thats a lot less stressfull and a lot more fun then being held down by a guy. so just go have fun. hook-up with some guys and just have fun! and the first guy well he sounds hot but i dont think you like him for him. possibly his looks or just want a boyfriend real bad. yeah hobbies = dont work. tried it =] haha but anyways just have fun with the guys. its summer. be single. that always funnier. i know having a boyfriend is like whoa omg. but like just having fun all the time with different guys is a lot more easier, funnier, & you wont get your heartbroke if you dont like them that way. hope i helped. rate me please =] [ UHOHxOMFG's advice column | Ask UHOHxOMFG A Question ]
KELLY_ELIZABETH answered Tuesday June 13 2006, 12:32 pm: you dont wanna get involved with the second boy wither, because of the fact he thinks of you as friends with benefits. thats never good, because one person always falls for the other, but the other doesnt feel the same way. so they get their heart broken. i know a lot of people may say this, but you need to get a hobby. and realise you dont need a boy in your life to make you happy. when you find that time, and can completely live without a boyfriend - then its time for you to have one. to have a boyfriend is like a gift. so dont go shopping everyday for that new shirt you want. i dont know if im making much since, but im just saying you dont need a boy in your life. plus, you didnt know either of these boys very well. i thikn your all caught up on how they look and what they think about you, that you didnt even try and take the time to get to know them. take up a hobby - learn to draw, take a new language, make new friends, read a good book, whatever ! get your mind off these boys, and try to find one that will beg for you. not the other way around. he should be lucky to have you, and he should show it. good luck with everything, and remember that looks arent everything.
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