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Hi. I thought that I sould get this page because so many people are always asking me for advice. This is just a way to help you in making any decision that you feel you could use a peer's help on. Do not feel obgligated to use any of the advice given on this page. It is up to you weither this information is helpful or not.

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I need a big favor, smarty. I want to dress in something nice, but that really isn't my style. I am more the blue jeans, graphic tea, hair in a pony-tail. But that isn't real actractive.

I know this is may seem as a little pointless question, but it's a question i want to know, and other poeple might too. TThankks

--sissy--

--Sissy-- (again)
If your looking to dress a little out of your normal, here are a few tips that you can use. First, try the new style at home or on the weekend and let your family and closest friends give their opinions before wearing it someplace public. Second, Don't change too drastically, too fast. If you want to make a drastic change, you can change you tops first, then your bottoms so its nott too much all at once.
Since your normal is a pair of Jeans, Graphic Tee and Pony-tail girl, you could try to glam it up a little. If wouldn't hurt you to try a long or mid-lenght skirt. Since it is summer, you could also just stick with Cargo's or Burmeata (sp?) Shorts. If you want to wear a skirt, then you should wear a layered tank, or oversized tee with a mini skirt. These looks with change it up a little bit from your norm. If you want to wear the Carog's then maybe more of a dressy shirt. Like a few layers or tanks.
I hope that this hel pyou out. I gave you a few differnt tips to still glam it up, but stay casual while still looking cute. Have fun with you new look!

Good Luck,
Smarty

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I am not going to use any names and I don't want you to use any names please.

I have this one friend and she hurt me really bad. I fell like every time when we talk to eachother we still have a grudge on eachother. I told her I didn't want it to be that way. She said she was sorry about everything. It fells like every thing is all better, but i told her it would never be like noraml. she excepted that. now she is talking to me like normal and it seems to me like she wants to be best friends again, i don't know what to do. i kind of beilever but in another sense don't. And i fell like if i do say i trust her again,(which i told her i partically do) that she will think that every think is like normal again. But i don't know how i could give her my full trust again if she thinks that. I want to trust her agian but i just can't. she is throwing her trust to me so evry thing can be liek normal again and i know if i take it i am only setting my self in a trap to be hurt. Do i take it and just pretend every thing is like normal even though she would hurt me again but that would avoid grudges. Should i tell her this, and how i fell again so she knows i am catching on to her plan of taking advantage of me? I have no idea. HELP! What do I do?

I mean i partcially want to be her friend but i will not tolerate getting hurt again and if thats what she does to me i have no one else to blame but my self.

--sissy--

--Sissy--

This is my advice for you:
Since I know exactly what and who you are talking about, and I know who this is, I woud say that you really shouldn't trust her again. As me being your older sister, I would like to let you see some of the things that I see, that are sometimes oblivious to your eyes. I think that she is a mean and horriable person. She is just trying to take advantage of you, and she is doing this because she is jealous. You have the looks, the brains, and the heart. She has nothing. So lastly, all I have to say is follow your heart, because you have a big one and you know how to use it. Go with you gut instinct and if something doesn't feel right, you know it isn't.

Yours Truly,
Smarty

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