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Some One to Trust
I am not going to use any names and I don't want you to use any names please.
I have this one friend and she hurt me really bad. I fell like every time when we talk to eachother we still have a grudge on eachother. I told her I didn't want it to be that way. She said she was sorry about everything. It fells like every thing is all better, but i told her it would never be like noraml. she excepted that. now she is talking to me like normal and it seems to me like she wants to be best friends again, i don't know what to do. i kind of beilever but in another sense don't. And i fell like if i do say i trust her again,(which i told her i partically do) that she will think that every think is like normal again. But i don't know how i could give her my full trust again if she thinks that. I want to trust her agian but i just can't. she is throwing her trust to me so evry thing can be liek normal again and i know if i take it i am only setting my self in a trap to be hurt. Do i take it and just pretend every thing is like normal even though she would hurt me again but that would avoid grudges. Should i tell her this, and how i fell again so she knows i am catching on to her plan of taking advantage of me? I have no idea. HELP! What do I do?
I mean i partcially want to be her friend but i will not tolerate getting hurt again and if thats what she does to me i have no one else to blame but my self.
--sissy--
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--Sissy--
This is my advice for you:
Since I know exactly what and who you are talking about, and I know who this is, I woud say that you really shouldn't trust her again. As me being your older sister, I would like to let you see some of the things that I see, that are sometimes oblivious to your eyes. I think that she is a mean and horriable person. She is just trying to take advantage of you, and she is doing this because she is jealous. You have the looks, the brains, and the heart. She has nothing. So lastly, all I have to say is follow your heart, because you have a big one and you know how to use it. Go with you gut instinct and if something doesn't feel right, you know it isn't.
Yours Truly,
Smarty
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