I'm a sibling,sister,Student. I'm a very depressing girl and i wish to change.
Gender: Female Location: America Occupation: Student Age: 14 Member Since: June 12, 2006 Answers: 14 Last Update: July 6, 2006 Visitors: 2160
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im a 13 year old girl and ive had my bf for about a week hes 14 almost 15(im going into 8th grade and hes going into 10th) and we started going out on a school trip, so we were together a LOT, and on our second or third day going out he said he loved me once sortof joking and once seriously and hes my first bf and he said it more after that and i just dont know if he really means it, or if hes just saying it...
ive never had a bf before, and im his 2nd real gf
thank you so much
im sorry its so long =] (link)
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Well it depends on how he said it if he said it while he was looking you in the eye if he does that usualy means he means it if not there is a chance he does mean it but he could not. Tell him seriously that you love him and look him in the eye.Then if he says it back while hes looking at you in the eye he means it.
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me and my boyfriend just had a fight..a really big one, i screwed up i know. but i apologized
he hasnt called me in over 3 weeks. so i guess that means were not datin anymore?
i tried textin him about a week ago tellin him that i was sorry. he didnt reply, and he didnt call me back. i want to know whats going on with him sooo badly!!! i want to call him sooo bad, but i dont want to make it seem like im desperate. but i dont want to wait around either. i need him in my life..i just dont know what to do. and if i do call him..i dont want everything to be akward silence, i want everything to pick up the way we left it..i just dont know. help!! (link)
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well maybe go over to his house or give him a gift to show him you really still care about him having like a cute note like im so sorry i luv with all my heart and i don't want you to go because of me. something to remind him why he luvs u so much
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do girls like it when you look them in the eye when you talk to them (link)
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Yes girls like it when you talk eye to eye because it means they are listening and you do the same so she knows your listening and it means your not all nervous and anoying like some boys are when they ask a girl out yes girls luv it when you that!
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What kinds of things do you do in Girl Scouts and how old do you need to be to join? (link)
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ha well when i was little i joined Im still in which is weird but i don't do anything cuz im lazi and it takes alot of energy to sell cookies i sell a few to close people but i hate going house to house im not sure how young you can join but you can be any age to join. You would sell cookies door to door and you get prizes for it and you can get badges by doing specific things like going camping going to seaworld and going to help the world like picking up trash. And stuff like that.
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My girlfreind want me to eat her out after we have had sex .We dont use a condom as she is on depro needle. My question is if i like doing it and knowing im eating my own sperm does it make me gay (link)
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Wow well i usualy don't do these questions but wow thats a very interesting and surprising question. No it does not make you gay!! Gay is when you like other men it has nothing to do with eating your sperm ha. No i don't think it makes you gay well ok.... thats a very weird question.Im not an expert on that but i don't think it makes you gay.
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ok i'm the kind of girl that loves punk and just about anything besides the opera and classical scene. what are some really great bands that are punk? indie? ska? yeah just stuff like that would be great. please & thank you (link)
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Fat Lip
Disturbed
AFI
Taking Back Sunday
Panic! At the Disco
Avril Lavigne
Evanescence
Rob Zombie
Three Days Grace
Flyleaf
System of the Down
Chevelle
Lostprophets
Alien Ant Farm
My Chemical Romance
Greenday
Those are some i like!
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my best friend is scared of the dark. i can't get to sleep when i spend the night at her house because she keeps all the lights on in her room and i just cant fall asleep. so when she hits the hay... i quietly go to the light switch and turn the lights off. as soon as i do that she wakes up and starts crying! what to do???
thanks in advance
Frenchy♥
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Ah well that happened to me and my friends. She had to have the lights on she would freak out if not.What i told her was that if your scared of the dark you will be scared if u close your eyes get her something special if that does not work. get her like a stuffed animal. If none of that helps i suggest you get a light dimmer i have one for my room for any of my friends that are scared. And if none of that works have her be with you at all times at night like tell her stories. Or talk some of the night with the light off. Or get a nightlight. Or play soothing music for her with the light off. Play ocean waves or the nights wind or something she likes like rain fall. if i can't get to sleep i put on waves or rain it always helps me sleep at night. I hope some of my suggestions work and have fun at your sleep overs!!
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i have a friend who enjoys making me feel bad about stuff i have no control over. She likes this kid who absolutely can't stand her because she's clingy (i'm not trying to be mean, but i just thought its good to include every detail) she's absolutely in love with him and if he doesn't answer her on AIM she freaks out with the "are you mad at me? what'd i do" etc. He doesn't like her, but he does like me, and i like him. And she just can't accept it.(i sounded like a bitch, but i didn't mean to) Well he and i talk and may date, and she's always saying things like "i don't see why you talk to him, he's an asshole, if i were you i would have given up on him" and then she tries to make me feel bad or something by saying "i really like him, but there's nothing i can do, he likes you.. it's because i'm ugly...i just wish i had someone like you do" and stuff and i don't know how to politely tell her to shut up about it already. i mean, she just is always such a downer and i just can't take it anymore! i want to be friends with her and everything, but not if shes gonna be obsessed with him and always jealous/angry or whatever. (link)
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ah well tell her its ok someomne is out there for you like there is for me
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i dont know what category belongs to but in verizon they have unlimited night calls and weekends or something like that is it true? because i really wanna know what if i talked for 3 hours at night is it still free? im just worried. (link)
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ha yes i have a verizon phone yes you have unlimited minutes on nights and weekends it is very true cuz i talk all night wit my friends hehe well go on and talk! Yes you can talk for 3 hours so your fine!
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my friend is embarrased to walk into a store and buy her own goddamn vibrator so she wants me to buy it for her and im a guy what the hell am i supposed to do......i dont even know where to get one.....please help (link)
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hahaha now thats just unusual ask her where to get one or just tell her to get it herself or just like go in together its that simple now im only 14 so i have no idea where to get one you might want to look it up online. yes im not very helpful but thats all i can say
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Why is it that so many girls freak out about their boobs being too small? I see so many questions about girls who think that because they have small boobs, they won't get any guys. That is not true at all.
But that really isn't the issue, I guess. I myself have quite the chest. I'm a 38 D, and still growing somewhat. It is painful sometimes, especially around periods, and frustrating, because it is near impossible to find shirts that fit, or decent bras.
So when I see these girls who think their lives are over because they are 16 and they aren't Jessica Rabbit, it makes me angry. They have no idea what larger chested women have to deal with! To me, it seems they have it easy. They don't have to worry about aching backs, or not being able to wear a beautiful shirt or dress because it is too tight at the bust, or too loose everywhere else.
How can I keep from being so angry with them? I know that they don't understand, and I know it isn't worth fussing over, but I just can't help it.
Thank you all so much! (link)
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Well Girls think that having big boobs gets them guys. Which is not true. Some guys will be taken in by it and some guys really don't like it. Some girls really don't care like me and my friends we don't wanna look at eachothers boobs and start fussing about how we look. Because it is very dumb and i don't think any girl should get boob implants just to get boys because some boys really really don't care some boys might even make fun of girls. Just tell them that they look fine they way they are. boobs do not matter to most guys
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You know the stuff they use to numb your mouth at the dentist? I don't know what it's called. Well I know that after it wears off, you mouth is still a little sore from the needles but how long is it supposed to stay sore? It's been 4 days for me and I still can't even sleep on my left cheek because of it. The soreness has never lasted so long. (link)
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Well its called novicane i got 5 teeth pulled yes it will be sore take some medicine to take away the soreness well i don't think i could feel it because i was asleep after they pulled um and i was at home i fell straight asleep for about 2 days and never awoke till like the next next day hehe well it might be really sore thats really normal. if hurts for about more then a week you really might want to ask the doctor it depends on how many shot of novicane they gave you well i got 17 and it hurt for about a few days but if it still hurts go ask a dentist
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Everything's bothering me
My friend has become the center of attention; the one everyone likes
Where's Caitlin in all this?
All I want is one guy
Jus for one guy to like me
For me to be real and not fake
To be recognized by some of my favoirite people
If I could give up my whole life for just one day of happiness, I'd do it
One day of me knowing the kid I like likes me back
My friend just doesn't get it
For ONCE I want the guy to fall in love with me, not her
Everyone likes her
She doesn't even know it, but it's true
And what am I...
-Kandi (link)
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Kandi I have the same issue i swear! No one likes me either. It doesn't mean your not good enough! Some day some random day a boy will like you for who u are not for what your not who cares if the guys you like likes your friend its ok! Thats whats going on with me Hey im staying strong! You don't need a guy to make you happy trust me! I'm single and i enjoy life! because you know what just when someone likes you and he likes you to doesn't mean YOU HAVE to hook up. Trust me you will get depressed and shit like i did but i found out once i had a bf and he was so boring i really liked him till i found out how he really acted i hated him so i dumped him then i got a new bf i like and he dumped me and it hurt me so badly. just relax someone will like you eventually but you don't NEED someone to like you. and remember BE YOURSELF NO ONE CAN CHANGE YOU!
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so today my boyfriend came over to my place and wanted to see my myspace. he doesnt have a computer and cant see mine so i showed him it. there were to comments left by two guys both were my cousins friend and i only have talked to them once and he got mad about them. they didnt even say anything bad just\" hey life is good thanks 4 askin..
oh thats cool your coming to our skool i like that trust me your going to have alot of fun there and no im not going to summer skool.
but are you going to summer skool?? \" and the other one said\"hey how you doing? hows things going wich ya it was a pleasure meeting you last time ^_^ hope your doing great! \"
nothin bad but the first thing he said was i knew you talked to guys online and that you cheat on me.
someone please help me out! (link)
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Confront your boyfriend tell him they are only friends and you would do nothing to hurt him at all tell him you love him more then life. Let him meet them and tell him there is nothing to worry about they are just your cousins friends and you don't even really know them. i hope that helps!
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