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myspace/boyfriend


Question Posted Sunday June 25 2006, 11:43 pm

so today my boyfriend came over to my place and wanted to see my myspace. he doesnt have a computer and cant see mine so i showed him it. there were to comments left by two guys both were my cousins friend and i only have talked to them once and he got mad about them. they didnt even say anything bad just\" hey life is good thanks 4 askin..
oh thats cool your coming to our skool i like that trust me your going to have alot of fun there and no im not going to summer skool.
but are you going to summer skool?? \" and the other one said\"hey how you doing? hows things going wich ya it was a pleasure meeting you last time ^_^ hope your doing great! \"

nothin bad but the first thing he said was i knew you talked to guys online and that you cheat on me.

someone please help me out!


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russianspy1234 answered Tuesday June 27 2006, 10:33 pm:
he sounds like a jelous prick, thinking you are cheating on him just for talking to guys. that will definitely lead to trouble down the line, and you should talk to him about it, or dump him. when someone is that over protective it is generarly a case of projection, and he is attacking his own urge to cheat.

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summerGIRL_xo answered Monday June 26 2006, 2:10 pm:
he is being way over protective and possesive. just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean you can't talk to other guys and have guy friends! talk to him and tell him that he needs to TRUST you, that you would never cheat on him, and these guys are just your friends! if he argues with that, you can get a little more stern and say, i'm aloud to be friends with whoever i want. hope i helped

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MaNdASzHElP247 answered Monday June 26 2006, 4:33 am:
my boyfriend gets overly jealous about EVERYTHING. if he cant learn to trust you.. then just end it. honestly no matter how much you care you DONT wanna continue. my boyfriend started out with little things like comments and having guys on my AIM buddy list.. to now he calls me twice every hour and asks me a million times what im doing. he calls my friends boyfriends to see if were really doing what i said. yet he claims he trusts me. i've never cheated but hes just WAY too jealous. honestly tell him he needs to relax that you care about him and your not interested in anyone else, plus that guys are gunna leave you comments..you do have other guy friends who are just FRIENDS.

hopefully everything gets better (:

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AxGirlxttTooxConfusedxTox answered Monday June 26 2006, 1:10 am:
Confront your boyfriend tell him they are only friends and you would do nothing to hurt him at all tell him you love him more then life. Let him meet them and tell him there is nothing to worry about they are just your cousins friends and you don't even really know them. i hope that helps!

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GUCCiGiRLXoXo answered Monday June 26 2006, 12:54 am:
Haha, omg guys are so overprotective!! My last boyfriend was like this as well. Just let him know that first off, you were just asking those two guys how they were and all that jazz. It's really annoying when guys do this kind of stuff really but he's definitley jealous. Don't worry, just tell him about those guys and if he still doesn't believe you then get those guys to proove it! hope I helped you!! Any more questions?? Leave me one in the box! ~ Neelz! ♥

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someone1234 answered Monday June 26 2006, 12:13 am:
Hey your bf is really jealouse, just like mine. But he has no right to tell you who you can or cant talk to. Tell him that those guys are friends and that you have not cheated on him, and that you thought he trusted you enouhgt to know that. But atleast this guy cares about you..maybe a little too much but be happy. Myspace can cause alot of relationship problems, he doesnt have one. And imagine how you would feel if he did and girls where leaving him comments..If you would be ok with that then its ok, but if you wouldnt I think its best you do what me and my bf of 2 years did. None of us have myspace and we are happy about it.

Best of luck to you 2
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