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third base again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ok well i asked her about it like one of this people toldme to to do but she wants to wait and i dont want to wait! and i have begged and stuff but she wants to wait what should i do?
andi have so much presure like these guys that arae going all the way with there gf and i just want third base!
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First rule. NEVER PRESSURE A GIRL INTO DOING SOMETHING SHE DOESNT WANT TO DO! and I stress that because if you do it too much, shes going to leave you.
Second. Ignore your friends. Theyre showing off and chances are, their girlfriends dont know theyre doing it. Not every girl wants their love life painted on a wall.
Third. DONT BEG. Thats making you sound desperate. No girl wants a desperate boyfriend.
If youre really into the girl, dont push it. It'll come naturally.
Ask her when she thinks she'll be ready, and then work on doing a little more experimenting when youre making out or something like that to really tell her youre ready. But again, DONT PUSH OR PRESSURE HER INTO IT. She wont like it.
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kay well i am on the other side of this question. my boyfriend want to go to third base but i am not sure if i do. and if this girl is worth waiting for then wait. if shes not then do what you want. but if the pressure from other guys is the problem then you pretty much have two choices...
1. just ignore them
2. just be like what me and my gf do is our business not yours.
hope i helped.
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As they say, "good things come to those who wait." Give her time and don't pressure her. When she's ready, it will happen. If you really like this girl, you'll be glad you waited. But if you keep pressuring her before she's ready, she may break up with you... and then, of course, it will never happen! And next time your guy friends ask how far you've gone with her, just say "well, that's between me and her." Also, keep in mind that some of the guys who are bragging about what they've done with their girlfriends may be stretching the truth a bit!
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Don't pressure her.
You should appreciate that your girlfriend is not a hussy or someone who gives in easily.
If you're just in the relationship in hopes of getting to "third base" then you're in the wrong relationship.
She's obviously not ready, even if you think you are. If you like her, then you should wait.
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hey what ever you do dont push her thats dumb and if you really love her then you dont need to do it you should just be happy to be around her...and you friends should understand that she wants to wait abd if they dont there notyour real friends
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Do not rush her! It is a huge turn off! Be patient, she will come around eventually. Appreciate the fact shes not easy, and takes a little more than just asking to get her to do something.
But, if you REALLY need the help; get her horny, and she might just do it on her own.
Remember, NEVER force her to do something she isn't comfortable with!
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If you love your girl, you need to wait. Don't ever pressure a girl to do anything she doesn't want to do. If you're not willing to wait, then you shouldn't be with her. It's really mean if you leave a girl because your needs get in the way with her morals, but it's even worse if you pressure her when she's not ready. You should want to be with a girl because you love her, not because you feel like you have to because your friends are..
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