Free AdviceGet Free Advice
Home | Get advice | Give advice | Topics | Columnists | - !START HERE! -
Make Suggestions | Sitemap

Get Advice


Search Questions

Ask A Question

Browse Advice Columnists

Search Advice Columnists

Chat Room

Give Advice

View Questions
Search Questions
Advice Topics

Login

Username:
Password:
Remember me
Register for free!
Lost Password?

Want to give Advice?

Sign Up Now
(It's FREE!)

Miscellaneous

Shirts and Stuff
Page Backgrounds
Make Suggestions
Site News
Link To Us
About Us
Terms of Service
Help/FAQ
Sitemap
Contact Us


cutting


Question Posted Thursday May 31 2007, 12:10 am

what should you do or say when you find out your friend is cutting. because i have no clue what to tell my friend.

[ Answer this question ]
Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Health?


Allstar_reds2006 answered Saturday June 2 2007, 10:43 pm:
well i have been in this situation before and you dont need to renind them of what there doing cuz that upset them more so just bare with them and tell them to call you whenever he/she needs to do it so you can talk them out of it cause its very dangerous any other ? let me no im happy to help

[ Allstar_reds2006's advice column | Ask Allstar_reds2006 A Question
]




228gurl answered Thursday May 31 2007, 10:47 am:
If you cannot talk to her about it tell a counselor at school or your parents she will need to get help to quit cutting herself.
Talking to her about cutting will depend on how close of friends you are

this link will give you more tips on how to talk to them or help them
[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)

Whatever you do dont tell other friends because this will get back to her and make matters worse. You are a great friend for caring and trying to help her Good Luck :-)

[ 228gurl's advice column | Ask 228gurl A Question
]



BlondBritBrit answered Thursday May 31 2007, 12:38 am:
Leave her alone. Most people really do just do it for attention. The more attention you give her, the more she will do it. It's like training a puppy. Plus, it's her life. Let her do what she wants. You aren't her mom.

[ BlondBritBrit's advice column | Ask BlondBritBrit A Question
]



Teza answered Thursday May 31 2007, 12:28 am:
You need to comfort your friend. Your friend is going through a rough time and all you have to do is be there for her. Explain to them that what they're doing is not worth it and life is too short for those kind of things. Make them realize that whatever they are going through, that you'll be there to talk to and anything else. If your friend does not stop, you need to tell an adult or someone else. Cutting leads to depression, and worse things.

[ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question
]



iwantthetruth answered Thursday May 31 2007, 12:28 am:
well ask her if she/he is ok. i used to cut. my friends asked about it and i denied it completely. i said my dog was scartching me. be there for your friend to talk about whats going on in their life. but dont tell anyone about it.

SAM

[ iwantthetruth's advice column | Ask iwantthetruth A Question
]

More Questions:

<<< Previous Question: PARTYY BAGGS FOR GUYSS!!
Next Question >>> Camera

Recent popular questions:
Want to give advice?

Click here to start your own advice column!

What happened here with my gamer friends?

All content on this page posted by members of advicenators.com is the responsibility those individual members. Other content © 2003-2014 advicenators.com. We do not promise accuracy, completeness, or usefulness of any advice and are not responsible for content.

Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content.
Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.

[Valid RSS] eXTReMe Tracker