well i heard today that my ex cheated on his last girlfriend. that really worries me because i have beent here before. i asked him about it and said it wasnt true. i really want to trust him but i have had trust issues with boys since my first boyfriend cause he was abusive and cheated. i really dont wanna go through that pain again and dot know what to do about it! i need seruous help this time!
xXL0VERGiRLXx answered Thursday June 22 2006, 2:19 pm: if i were you, i would snoop around a bit more, so then you have proof of whether or not he was telling the truth or lying. if that isnt possible, i would keep asking him about it every once in a while, like maybe say, '' i know you said you didnt cheat on your girl but people are telling me otherwise and its beginning to worry me...'' or something. i hope i helped...
bexc answered Thursday June 22 2006, 11:20 am: I know how hard it is to be in the same sort of possition as your bf. If you think he is not telling the truth then my advice is to tell him that it will not change any thing if he did cheat on his last girlfriend and ask him to promise you he will not do the same to you. If you really like this guy than you need to stick by him but if he doesnt tell you the truth and you find out he lied then you must leave him because a relation ship with out honesty is not a relationship you really want to be in. Do what you can to make sure he is telling you the truth, and think about what your relationship would be like if all those other things hadnt have happened between you and your first boyfriend [ bexc's advice column | Ask bexc A Question ]
Allstar_reds2006 answered Thursday June 22 2006, 12:07 am: Tell him that you want the truth from him and if that dont work or he does something to get away from it find out who his ex is and call her and ask then if you find out he's lieing to you then you can either give him another shoot or kick his ass lol well good luck Love ya, (shooting stars) travis [ Allstar_reds2006's advice column | Ask Allstar_reds2006 A Question ]
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