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will love really solve everything?
hi, im a 15 year old girl, never had a bf, but have made out with TOONNNS of guys, and have had plenty of admirers.
the problem?
im not happy with life, but i dont think my love life has anything to do with it..
but everyone else seems to, everywhere i go people are always like "life is nothing without love" so i get it, love is important. i belive so too, if i live life for my career or firends, i will not be happy,,i need true love.
but is it realy THAT important? really?
like does my whole happyness depend on love?
and does having a bf realyy matter?
ive heard people who have steady relationships often do better in life, better in school, with friends and s on.. but i dont get it? why does having a bf make life easier??
do you have any experciences of this in your own personal life?? care to share?? thx.
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you're right, your love life doesn't necessarily have to do with your happiness in life.
a lot of people are scared to be alone so the only time they feel comfortable is if theyre in a relationship- even if it's an unfulfilling one.
the important thing is finding what you love about life. if a good relationship happens to come along, great. but life certainly doesnt have to depend on a relationship. don't let people convince you that you can't be happy without a man.
women are beautiful, powerful, intelligent, courageous, intuitive all on their own.
the important thing is to celebrate your strenghs as a person. eventually one of your "admirers" might be a decent guy. but dont worry too much about it.
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I'm 19, never had a girlfriend, and am perfectly happy without one. I wouldn't mind having one but it's not something I'm all that bothered about. Like Nallie said, you need to love yourself in order to be happy.
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From my experience no, a steady boyfriend will not help you do better in life. Happiness does not depend on being in love, it will depend on how much you love yourself. You are the only one who can make you happy. So in otherwords, happiness starts from within. I believe we only have so much energy to give, and being in love with the wrong person is draining and taxing. There are usually more "wrongs" than "rights" so from personal experience it is best for one to take time and develop their true self before trying to devote their life to another.
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Having a bf does not matter, if I'm completely honest it's more difficult, you have to set aside time for them. You have to make sure you have time for other friends and for school work. And then there's judgemental friends that don't like him. I wouldn't make a conscious effort to get a boyfriend, if it happens, it happens. Make sure they don't take over your life. Being single is much more fun anyway. xx
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