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how do i get rid of him?
15/f
okay well there's this guy that likes me and he's going to ask me out i know it because he's already tried but i have no intrest in him but he's just not my type.
he's also in some classes for the slower pple and i don't know him too well so i don't know what to say in rejecting him.
whoa that sounds harsh please help!
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o wow. tell me about it ! i have had this happen so many times. guys that i have no interest in what-so-ever always ask me out. this is what i do, and it seems to work pretty well.you can just straight out so that u arent interested. or, you could b nicer and go with the "just want to be friends" technique. i no it sounds dorky, but if you word it the right way, it doesnt make you seem like the bad guy.tell him that you dont want to ruin your friendship with him if it didnt work out in the long run.also,try telling him that you only want to be friends because you dont have any feelings for him.but no matter what, make sure you are honest with him. i no all of this sounds really "chicken soup for the soulish," but believe me. it works.and just a tip. make sure that after you let him down, that you dont completely blow him off. give him a little while to get over you.=]
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Well, the thing is eventually he's going to ask. You'll just have to face him someday, no matter how long you avoid him. My advice for that; don't cave! You aren't interested like that at all, so no matter what happens, don't agree to go out with him. Also, don't say to him, "maybe in the future..." or something along the lines because that would be leading him on. Just say that you're friends and you just can't see it being anymore. Good luck!
-Becky
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Just in a nice tone be like,"I'm sorry, but I really don't know you that well. Do you think we could just be friends?"
I hope I helped.
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hey my name is taylor. i think you should hust say im sorry your just not my type. but tell him yal can be friends and get to know each other. but i have done this plenty of times with guys. so im used ot it. lolz!!
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Try
* Id rather be just friends for now. ( then add the pretty sorry comment in your soft voice)
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