Ok I love guys. I have plenty of guy friends but whenever a guy shows intrest in me or hints he wants to go out some time I totally head for the other direction. I start to ignore him and stop talking to him. I don't know how to become more open and I am only really open when I'm around my friends. I don't know how to change this and not be so afraid anymore. I mean he trys talking to me and getting me into conversations but i don't know how to respond. someone please help me
marti answered Thursday October 12 2006, 9:20 pm: I use to be just like you. You want the attentiuon and crave it and then you will get it and u run off and beat urself up about it. I think you should be with those guys while you are with friends and have them help you be more compfortable. Than maybe next time have less and less friends and get to know the person better before you go all flirty with them. Just breathe and pretend like hes just a friend asking a normal question or fidget or you can practice with a friend ik it sounds corny but hey anything should help. [ marti's advice column | Ask marti A Question ]
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