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Boy?


Question Posted Thursday October 12 2006, 9:01 pm

So I like this kid.
He has a girlfriend now, but we used to have a thing during the summer.
We are friends and all but like in front of his friends he's mean to me.. etc.
But I noticed that on days that i look pretty , he is less mean to me and tries to be around more
and he'll talk to me on online that day and try and find reasons to talk to me [online].
I dont mind this because i love talking to him but why is this?

ps. one time he even sat with me on the bus, and that was a day where i probably looked the best.

pss, im not trying to sound stuckup , im not very pretty lol.


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not_your_star34 answered Friday October 13 2006, 9:57 pm:
This guy isn't worth your time at all, no matter how much you love talking to him, or how nice he may seem. A real friend, or a great guy, will like you for who you are, good or bad, pretty or not. Be honest: When you think about how mean he is, do you REALLY think that he's such a great guy? Probably not.
But, sometimes, when a girl likes a guy who treats her badly (or vice versa), she can be blind to all of his bad traits, or doesn't want to believe that he has a bad side, or that he isn't as nice as he seems.

I think that you should stop talking to this guy. You'll find someone who is worth your time and affection, I promise. Just give it time.

I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
-Manders

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godslildevil777 answered Friday October 13 2006, 7:33 am:
umm... seriously? I think this guy is a jerk. Think about it, he talks to you ONLY on the days when you look pretty.. he's mean to you any other day... He may just be showing off to his friends when you come around, but more than likely he's just REALLY shallow. And I'm pretty sure he doesn't deserve a doll like you. Watch out for jerks like him ok?

If you wanna talk more... just messege me.

hope I helped! ^.^

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Short_Girl13 answered Friday October 13 2006, 12:25 am:
i think he still likes you. maybe he might break up wit his girl 4 you.that will be cute. but if you dont feel comfortable about this tell his girl.she would talk 2 him.but obviously if he is being mean to you that really means he likes you.you must be pretty if you have a boy that likes you.

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DiNOxTHUNDER answered Thursday October 12 2006, 10:26 pm:
honestly,this kid sounds like a real jerk.but i no how you feel.ive dealt with enough of them.guys have two sides to them.they have the "have to b cool infront of his friends" side. but they also have the "sensitive like to talk to girls" side.i dont think he has anything against you, but guys find it hard to b nice to girls in front of their friends.but if he only talks to you when u look pretty,well,idk if he's a keeper.but the answer to your question now.he acts like this because hes a guy, and all guys act that way.if this guys not nice to you tho,hun, you need to find yourself someone who likes you for you, and wont treat you differently around other people.and dont worry,the right guy will come.good luck sweetie! =]

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marti answered Thursday October 12 2006, 9:28 pm:
Id say dont get attached. If he is mean to you around his friends but nice wen u look good he just wants some booty this happens where i live all the time (and to me) You can be friends but dont let him get to you he will just brag to his friends that he got with you i know its hard but it is the truth

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OoglaBoogla answered Thursday October 12 2006, 9:17 pm:
so this kid lieks you on days you look pretty. he sounds pretty shallow to me. he is mean 2 you w/ his friends too. you need 2 find yourself a nice boy who will like you no matter waht you look like & embrace you as a friend not push you away.

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