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i made a bad mistake. what do i do?
I was feeling really horny and so i called up my boyfriend to come over.(my parents were out for the night and im an only child) he came over and we talked and watched a movie but i could barely control myself. we made out on the couch and then he felt me up. He asked if we wanted to have sex and i couldnt resist. we went into my bedroom and he put his thing in and it hurt really bad, but when he cummed it felt soo good. we had sex for about an hour. after we were done i gave him a blow job because he asked for one. i had sex the day after my period and five days ago i was supposed to have it but i didnt. im SO scared because im only 13. i threw up all day today and i never want to eat. im SOO scared. please please please help me. i need it badly.
oh and we also did it up the butt. could i still get pregnant from that? we did it both way.
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You should get a test..jus to bo sure..number one....number 2 he shouldve had a condom.
...3 you CANT get pregnant by being fucked uo the ass...and 4 youre way to young to be having sex
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Well, facts are yes, you could be pregnant, and no, you cannot get pregnant from anal. Go to the nearest drug store, like Shoppers, and purchase a pregnancy test (they're pretty cheap). That'll let you know. Next time, use a condom. Also, if you need anymore advice, just leave me a message on my column.
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im not gonna lecture you,because thats the last thing you need right now.
first things first.
yes,there is a great chance,and although you may not want to hear it,its true.
whats been happening to your body are symptoms of pregnancy.
im not trying to be hard on you here,so please forgive me.
ok.heres what you need to do.
go to the store and buy and ACCURATE pregnancy test,such as EPT.
take it when no one is home,and make sure you dispose of the package where no one can see it in case you arent pregnant.
if you are pregnant,invite your boyfriend over and tell him first,because hes the daddy.
then talk to him about what you are going to do,so you are prepared when you tell your parents.
about telling the parents,well heres where you need to be responsible and mature.
tell them that you know what you did was wrong and that you plan on taking full responsibility.
and if you dont want the baby,please,please,please,dont have an abortion.
have the baby and put it up for adoption.
if he/she gets a nice family,you may be able to even visit them.
i hope i helped,and if you need to talk about ANYTHING,im here 24/7.
my s/n is dinoxthunderx & my email is dinoxthunderx@aim.com
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DAMN! people with these long ass answers!!!
It takes seven days after you have sex for a sperm to reach an egg, so there is a good chance that your pregnant.
What happened to the condom? Why wasnt their one in use!!!!????
AND no you cant get pregnant from anal sex. You need to get some one you know and trust to buy you a test, or you buy it yourself, secretly take it and if you are indeed pregnant, then you need to find out how your going to tell the folks.
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There's quite a chance that you could be pregnant. I would wait a while, or I'd save up some money & buy an ept just to see if you're pregnant or not.
There is no way to change it if you are besides abortion, but I don't suggest it. My outlook on it is that if you can make it, then you can take it.
And you're only 13? You shouldn't even be having sex. You're still a baby, so how do you think that you'd be able to take care of one? Sorry to say, but you really fucked your life up. Next time you have sex, let alone it be unprotected, make sure you're old enough & know the consequences of your actions. Because obviously you don't.
All I can suggest to you is to be an ept. If it's positive, let your boyfriend know. Don't wait until the time is right to tell your parents. There is no right time. They're gonna figure it out soon. See what they can do to help. No doubt they're gonna be furious though. Their only child, who's 13 having unprotected sex.
Wow. I truly am at a loss for words.
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I didn't mean to make you feel bad. You asked for advice & I gave it to you. I'm not the type to sugarcoat anything, and what I said was no doubt the truth. You're too young to be getting sexual involved. If you're ever horny, use your hand honey.
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Hey, i read your problem and it looks to me, like there is a 50% of you getting pregnant, i mean.. you really have to wait for sometime to learn if you are or not. But right now, i can't help you or advice you with anything, because you've already done the action, so i am sorry to say it,but its too late. And actually, not getting your period and throwing up and stuff are symptoms of starting a pregnancy period. Look, i know that your probably freaking out and you don't know what to do. But i am telling you, that starting from right now , whether your pregnant or not, i am giving you a promise that i will stand by your side and support you through all the way.
And so now, you should try to calm down first , so you would be able to think straight, i am not gonna ask you why you even did it, because thats just too lame and useless, but you have to promise that you wouldn't do it again, thats for starters. And you have to admit that what you did was wrong and that you were not thinking straight. Listen to me, apart from all this shit and boyfreind stuff and sex and pregnancy, you have a religion that you should respect and a god that you should obey. What you did was wrong, so what you should be doing now, is to pray and ask for god's forgiveness, because if you don't , then your practically just working your way to hell right now. And i don't think you want that, and i don't think i want that for you. Listen, i will give you my email address which is l.ollit.a@hotmail.com , and please if you really want help , email me and tell me everything and tell me about his reaction after you did it, i mean.. didn't he think of the possibility that you would get pregnant? Tell me everything, speak up and say everything you want to say, because talking to someone is the first step to feeling better. And i am still keeping my promise, and i will help you and support you , and if there is anything at all or any problem that you face, send me an email immediately and i will give you my prompt reply. Take care , and don't worry, i am just about the same age as you are, and i have did the same to many others like you, so you can trust me and consider me as a freind or a hand that wants to help.
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your 13?? wow hunny you have to get tested no matter what. no comdom either i bet? and you missed your period and threw up all day.im 98% sure you are pregnant. go to plan parenthood, they can help.
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