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OMG! HELP ME NOW!
I was having sex last month and he promised he would use a condom. I was in the bathroom putting my new outfit on from Victoria Secret: sparkly, short skirt with a lacy see through corsette. He wanted me to make it sexy, so i did. So i went in the room and he said he had put the condom on so we had sex. He entered me and it felt weird. Then he cummed. It felt so good. But then he pulled it out after we were done, it lasted two hours by the way! But, there was no condom! He lied and never put a condom on! He said it feels better without one on.I was supposed ot get my period last week. I havent gotten it at all. My breats are tender and i havent had much of an appitite. PLEASE HELP ME! I'm 18/F
1)Does it feel better without a condom on?
2)Am i pregnant?
3)What should i do?
4)SHould i stay with this guy?
HELP ME I NEED ALL THE ADIVCE POSSIBLE! I WANT ALOT OF ADVICE!
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1. Yes it probabily does feel better for a guy without a condom.
2.There is a good chance you are pregnant. There was no form of birthcontrol. You have not had your period and you are experiencening signs of pregnancy.
3.You should get a pregnancy test as soon as possible, none of that cheap stuff. Get EPT. If the test is positive, you want to consider your options. There is keeping the baby, abortion and adoption, choose which one is best for you, keeping the babys future in mind.
4.You shouldnt stay with this guy. Any guy that would lie to you for his own pleasure at the risk of you getting pregnant or an STD is lower than dirt.
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ok so ya he lied but
1) NO b/c the codom is lubed so it goes in easier...but you cant feel it when he comes
2)You might be there is a very good chance...buy an EPT
3)Whatever you do use a condom next time
4)If you like the way he felt inside you go for it but if you didnt then dump the liar
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heres your answers:
1.from what i hear,a great deal.
2.there is a big possibility,and you do have pregnancy symptoms.
3.first go buy a pregnancy test and then if you are pregnant,tell you boyfriend.discuss what you plan on doing before you tell your parents.
4.it depends how you feel about him.if you love him,then sure.but you need to follow your heart,because even thought you may not want to hear it,youre the only one who knows if you loves this guy.
but PS.if you are,he should feel like a total jerk,that is one of the most immature & irresponsible things i have ever hear.
hope i helped.=]
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1 im told yes. But you should have made sure he had one on.
2 Big possibilty.3 You should buy and take a test. If you arent read for your parents to know, take the test and instructions out the box and throw away box before approaching house.
4 How long have you been with this guy? And you should also ask this guy how he feel about this situation.
Hes probably going to feel stupid because he should've used a condom.
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Personally, it does feel better without the condom, but if you're still young [which you are], condoms are highly recommended. There is a chance you could be pregnant, so I would get a pregnancy test. If you are, I definitely would not stay with this guy. He made a promise to use protection, and then he didn't just because "it feels better without one." You can't trust him to protect himself during sex, so why should you trust him to be the father of a kid who might be?
♥T!NA
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1) Yes, most guys think sex feels better without a condom.
2) You have some classic symptoms of pregnancy. You should take a test/see a doctor to be sure. You can also get free pregnancy tests, but they often come from anti-abortion places trying to convince you of their stance. Planned parenthood, if you're near one, is a good source of reproductive health care.
3) What should you do? It's up to you and at 18 you're an adult. The first thing you should do is confirm the pregnancy. If you do not show up as pregnant, repeat the test in another couple of weeks to be sure. If you are pregnant, then decide whether you're going to have the baby. If not, talk to someone about abortion. If so, decide whether you're going to parent this child or give it up for adoption. If you need help making this decision, talk to the father of the child (make sure he knows that it's his and the extent to which you want him to be involved with the child, including financially), talk to a priest/minister/whatever, to a doctor, to a family member, to friends, or to whomever you feel can give you support or solace. Having a baby could seriously alter your plans for your life. I urge you to hold him financially responsible for the child he has created, whether paying for half the abortion or expenses for bringing the baby to term or child support for the next 18 years.
4) WHATEVER YOU DO, DUMP HIM. He's obviously too selfish to be trusted. Never sleep with him again. This pregnancy or pregnancy scare will only be the beginning of your heartache if you stay with someone who would risk your future, your health, and your relationship for one night of sex without protection. He does not have your interests at heart. Get rid of him immediately except to hold him responsible for any damage he has done so far.
I hope you aren't pregnant, for your sake. My inbox is open if you need anything.
Sabine
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1) It depends on the person preference
2) There's a good chance
3) Get to a planned parenthood and get a test ASAP
4) I'd dump him and he'll probably dump you soon if he figures you're pregnant
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