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fingering and such
15/m
ok so my girlfriend and and i are really really in love, and i know that sounds cheesy but its true.
we've never exactly "made out" . . . we kiss each otehr all the time but yea. . .
anyway, i don't want to sound sleazy or anything, but i've thought about possibly fingering her. . . i keep getting this vibe from her that she wants to go further.
anyway, i guess my question is, is it appropriate for people our age to do so? i mean i've read alot of people who are our age's questions about the topic. . .and i don't know. . .
thanks in advance
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i think itd be a good idea to make out first. if you do this you will be a LOT more comfortable if and when u decide to do other things with her. plus it could be pretty akward just fingering her. you would usually want to do so while making out. and about the age thing. if your both comfortable with it then it shouldnt matter. hope i helped!
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OK...first of all you are not to young to be having oral sex or ft dont fingering or for handjobs, but you are not emotionally ready for actual sex.....go with the foreplay but dont go for the whole thing just yet
hope i helped...goodluck
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You should ask her what she wants to do.. it's good that you sense a vibe but you should talk about it first. if you can't talk about it, you aren't ready to do it. I think you should at least make out first... don't rush into things. 15 is an ok age if you both are 15... if she's younger you might wanna hold off for a little while. anything else just lemme know! <3
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Talk to her about it. If she says that she's ready for more, then continue doing what you're doing.
But you're still young, so if sex ends up happening, make sure you use protection.
♥T!NA
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Time to have a very honest discussion with your girlfriend in very frank language to find out what she does and does not want. No "vibe" stuff. Please ask her what she's ready for and what her limitations are. Decide together how far you want to go.
Sabine
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You need to talk to your girlfriend. You might be getting the wrong "vibe" from her. You need to know how comfortable she feels. It wouldnt be good if you did something she wasnt ready for.
Natalie
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