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I like to spend alot of time with my b/f and all my close friends have either moved away or i dont talk to them anymore. His friends are always dropping by and constantly are hanging out with him. He keeps saying he wants his alone time and doesn't want me to be there all the time, but how much space is enough space?
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Just talk to him about how much space he needs, which is good to talk about cause it shows you're able to talk to him about things and you understand him when he says he needs some space. You just need to leave him alone sometimes, I'm not trying to sound mean, but whenever he's hanging out with your friends, maybe you should give your friends a call and try and hang out with them some more so you have your old friends back. A girl needs some time to herself, too! I hope I helped.
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just don't be one of those clingy, needy girls thats always like "you have to hang out iwth me!" "why arent yout alking to me every second" "why didnt you call me back!" sometimes, problems do happen & you need to ask him questions like that but don't be overly dramatic and read into things too much. let him have time to chill with his friends, and if he wants to be alone, let him. don't say, "let's hang out" every second of the day. let him come to you sometimes, too. and if rigth away he doesn't ask you to hang out, he will eventually.
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Well, the most obvious answer is to ask, of course. Just standing by is going to lead to lack oftime together, which will end the relationship. When you do ask him though, be sure that you let him know that you don't want constant attention (as much as you do), and that you respect him wanting to be with his friends, just as you do. Make sure it's sincere and he knows exactly how you're feeling!
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You've got to ask him how much space he needs. It probably seems like the hardest thing to do right now but you need to know where you stand in the relationship. You could leave it for a while and see if there's change, but it's you that's gonna be hurt. Just ask though, if he's worth it he'll give you a straight answer. xx
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