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I just found out that my current boyfriend has eaten girls out before. He's done almost everything but have sex with a girl. I, on the other hand, haven't done anything. This creates kind of an uncomfortable situation. He knows that things have happened to me in the past to make me not want to do these things, and he also told me I didnt have to do anything I don't want to. But, I would like to do some things, just not.. a lot of them.
Ohk, so apparently to him, girls dont give good handjobs unless their experienced, Im obviously not experienced and he knows that, but, I dont know, thats one thing I would consider doing if I didnt know he thought girls without experience were bad at it.
Also, (sorry I know this is long) how can I become more comfortable with myself and my body?
Thank you so much!
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Okay..never do ANYTHING you are not completely comfortable with or do not want to do..sexual things are actually a negative impact on a relationship sometimes..because your emotional connection is weakened..if things have happened to you in the past to make you not want to do those things..don't do them..your boyfriend obviously likes you alot and if he is a good guy..he will understand and never ever force you to do anything..if he does..then you deserve MUCH better anyways..and as for becoming more comfortable with yourself and your body..guys are not how we think they are..they dont pick apart each flaw of a girl..they look at a girl as a whole and appreciate their beauty and im positive your boyfriend probably thinks youre beautiful in every way..just be confident! confidence shines through a person and its a very good quality..i know sometimes its hard to be completely comfortable but just relax and know that your boyfriend is probably thinkin right now"wow she looks really pretty".focus on the things you like about yourself and don't ever put yourself down..don't think about flaws.. imperfection is beauty anyways..and inner beauty is 100 times more important too..well i hope i helped!
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Just seduce your b/f. You dont have to have sex with him but have him experience your body...have him finger you and eat you out and suck on your nipples it feels good and hell let you do w/e you want to him
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About the hand job question, I can easily answer. I was in a similar position, not very experienced with a guy who was. He basically talked me through it, so if it is something you want to try, have him show you how he wants you to do it.
About the being comfortable with your body and yourself, you just have to come to accept it. It's who you are, and if you are not happy with it, it's something you can change with a good diet and exercise if you wish to. But remember, a lot of girls don't look like the celebrities on tv, the celebrities on tv don't even look like that.
Good Luck,
Teacup
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