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he has this idea in his head...
aalright, me and my bf arn't exactly intimatly active, but hes had sex one time before me, and he has this idea, that hes going to "screw every hole in me" (dont ask) and hes discussed it before, and he thinks fingering a females ass is pleasureable to her, however, i'm a girl, and i'm pretty sure it doesn't work Oo. well, am I just wrong? i mean, i've never done it before, but it doesnt sound like too much fun. I Know for guys, if done right a girl can finger a guys prostate (pegging), but Idk about the other way around?
and if he is wrong, how the hell am i gonna tell him?!
pplease guys, i dont wanna get screwed somewhere i shouldn't Oo!!!
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It might feel good but it might not there is no way to know unless you try ...but direct him where and what you want him to do
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I'm not bashing you or anything, but were you paying attention in Sex Ed 101 in eight grade?!
Sex is meant to be fun, sure. Sex is meant to be for lovers, sure. Whatever, but it supposed to be pleasurable to both partners! Hence le missionary position. Some guys get off from sticking a finger a girl's behind. Whenever she feels pain, i guess you could say it makes him horny. Especially a guy who tells his girl friend he's going to 'screw every hole in me'. I'd slap a guy if he'd every say a thing like that. I'm not dissing on your boyfriend, because I don't know him and he probably is a nice guy, but they're are more simple and less derogative ways in saying things like that. About the 'pegging part' I don't know a guy who likes being penetrated through his @$$. Excuse my french, but that basically is what pegging is. Maybe your getting cnofused with a hand job? No, you couldn't possibly. But anyways, bottom line. DONT DO ANYTHING UNLESS YOU WANT TO. Saying, 'Oh I did it because he wanted to,' Is not a reason. This is just a third party's response, its completely up to whether you're going to take it or not.
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There is no right or wrong here.
It is entirely up to you.
Lots of people, men and women, find anal play really enjoyable.
If you don't like the idea, and you don't want to try it that is all you have to tell him.
But he isn't 'wrong' about it being pleasurable. It just might not be pleasurable for you. Or you might find out you really like it. Either is fine.
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Lol ok well everyone is different... some girls may find it pleasureable som maybe not you may decid this for your self if you dont like it.... just tell him stairght up that ou dont like it that way he will noe what you do and do not like
XX britney XX let me noe how every thing works out
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