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i want to change
I have been rude, mean, and bitchy to guys and to my family. Also, online, I have been kind of slutty to guys. I want to change, I want to be nice and kind and not slutty. How can I do it, I try but I'm so used to being rude and slutty and stuff. Please help!
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change is always hard. just find some inspiration. find someone who is nice and kind that you'd like to be more like , and whenever you find yourself being mean and stuff , just think of that person.
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Its hard to put bad habits aside. But its good to see that you want to change for the best. First of all, start by apologizing to your family and friends, and have more of a possitive attitude. During dinner or something, talk to your family about there day or whatever topic. Say " thank you, Please" all that nice proper stuff.
To be nice- apologize to your friends Tell them, " Im really sorry for the way i have acted before in the past, But i want to start a new different way. I hope you can forgive me" . Then if you hang out with ur friends do something THEY want to do.If you ever get upset or furious TRY to hold it in. Keep your mean thoughts in your head and then later on in the day you could go up to your room when ur by yourself and let yourself explode.
Also. Try to gain your friends trust. And talk to them about your change. It really helps.
-xo
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I'm glad you want to change for the better, change is a great thing. I have had times when I have been mean and then sometimes it's hard to take back. If you could apologize to people you have been mean to, it would mean the beginning of you doing something nice which makes it closer to your goal. When you wake up and look yourself in the mirror tell yourself..."Today, I am going to be the kind of person I want to be". Yes, I know a little cheesy, but if you do this on a daily basis, you are constantly reminding yourself of who you want to be. Think of your actions and how they make others feel, it should help you want to be a better person.
Good Luck!
-Teacup
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