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I feel like i made the biggest mistake of my life!
OK here it goes I went out with this guy Ben and he broke up with me.. and then 2 months passed and we decided to give it another try unfornately it didn't work out so i broke up with him. the thing is, is i have a thing for his brother jay and i know he has a thing for me because he told me after the first time ben broke up with me. i still have a thing for jay, but i don't know what to do. ben is currently not talking to me. he won't give me the time of day... he is upset and acting childish so i don't wanna deal with him. what should i do?
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hey,
If a person loves someone so much and more than anything in this whole entire world, then he shouldn't allow anyone or anything to stand in his way. And that goes with the situation you are in.
YOu may have loved ben and he loved you and you were dating and stuff, but not all relationships are meant to be, some just don't work out. And that is exactly what happened between you and ben. And then after wards, you found out that there is someone else that you like and he also likes you, then why not go for it? is it just because he is ben's brother ,then this is what will stop you? Maybe this jay really likes you and wants to be with you and is willing to treat you with love and respect, and maybe things would work out between him and you.
Listen , you simply shouldn't let anything stop you or stand in your way,because you are big now, and you know how to take your own decisions, and you will not let your ex boyfreind stand in your way, as well as you won't let anyone else stand in your way. When there is love, then we go for it.
And if you are still worried about ben and his feelings, jay could talk to him and explain how he likes you and wants to be with you,and ben will get angry for sure, and pissed off that his brother liked his girlfreind (and now his ex), but he will get over it, and soon he will find someone nice too to love and be with.
So everything has a solution, but if you sit alone for awhile and try to think about all that has been happening, then you will find the solution right infront of you.
So goodluck:) and if you need any other help or advice, then please be free to contact me.
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let your ex be the child that he is, you wanna go for his bro, and this bro jay likes you go for it. your ex will get over it. and if jay liked you and you liked him why did you go out with your ex again? that don't make no sense, but ok. you don't wanna deal with ex don't just let time pass, hell' get over whatever he is feeling
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If you have tried your best to talk to Ben and he snubs you, you have done your best. There's no reason for you to suck up to anyone...it just didn't work out...it's not your fault.
As for Jay, he needs to talk to his brother and let him know that you two have feelings for one another. If you really like the guy and he likes you too...you deserve a shot at happiness. I say go for it. Ben may be more mad, but he'll get over it one day. Wounds heal.
Much Luck.
-Teacup
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First Ben has to understand it didnt work out
you have to call him sit him down and talk to him about that dont yell or nothing just talk.
Second you cant feel guilty the ret of ur life
you like Jay go for it Ben has to learn that you moved on.
And you also have to know that you moved on
hoped i helped
Alwayshereforyou
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