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i like this guy and i wanna tell him i like him and i kno how ima tell him but i dont kno what to say i wanna tell him when i give him a hug cuz i alwais hug him and we kinda stay like like for a min and then stop but yeah i wanna wisper in his ear but i dont kno what to say help please!!!

when i told my boyfriend i liked him i gave him a hug and i whipsered it in his ear. you should go with that idea you have because guys find that attractive.

okay. im 14... i dont see how people geet fat... i mean theres alot a big people in this world always complaining about their weight..&& ive never been fat before..im like really skinny...and i eat alot...when i see that im gaining a few pounds i cut down a little..&& it helps me keep my figure...alot of people even think im anorexic but im not..trust me.....what i dont get is why is it a really big person all like look at me im fat..i dont fit in&& low self exsteem and stuff...when really they can control that fat of theirs...unless someones making you eat alot...if you really want to be skinny...work for it you fat cows...just kidding...just saying...if you really want to be skinny WORK...and if you think you dont fit in cause you're different(fat )..you are different..cause you take up more space so get over it seriously..im tired of listening to them fat people...most people who are fat are fat because theyre 'GREEDY'
get over it..or do something about it..WORK..

My question really is: why are there so many fat people in this world??? cant you learn how to cut down..you GREEDY people...why cant a fat person just stop eatting so much..and WORK..come on people!! if you are one who eats alot..it helps to cut down by eatting less..dont even look at the food that is saying"eat me!!!"...so please help me understand thanks...

i think you are the person that is fat!!!!! you dumb Asshole, you need to get your ass beat and learn your f***** lesson. i bet your fuckin white!!!!!!!!!! cuz your having one of those blonde moments!!!!!!!!And you are certainly uneducated!!!!!!!

hey guys....
okay so i did the thing with my boyfriend on sunday...with no protection....we're both fine and everything and he pulled out before anything came out but ive been reading things on the "pre" stuff if you know what that is and it is possible that you could get pregnant that way...i read that nothing really happens till after the first 5 days and today, wednesday, the third day, i feel fine i dont think anything happened....do you think i should take a pregnancy test just incase?

yes take a pregnancy test because you will know earlier and you will have more choices layed out for you if you are pregnant.

hey a couple of weeks ago i posted a post called mistake and now i have advanced on it.

right i went to a beach party wednesday night and everyone was either drunk or high including me. my friend jack was looking after me and he is friends with the guy i had sex with. so lets call him jim. jim came up and was like o can we be friends please and i said yer but you were really mean and i cried when you dumped me and all that. he then said i am so sorry. then i was lying down on the grass and him and jack were lying either side of me so i didnt roll down the hill and he then kisses my forehead and tells jack to but jack didnt then he kissed my nose and then just kissed me on the lips and i kissed him back because i was drunk we ended up kissing quite a bit more but aparantly after i left he kissed another girl. i dont really mind about him kissing another girl cos we arnt together anymore but i want to know if we can still be friends. the only thing is he has blocked me and wont text back. please can i have some advice how to get us to be friends again?

thankyou so much xxx

you say you were drunk but if you were so drunk how can you remember what happened and what you did or what he did. i dont understand that. you need to provide a link so people can relate to your last question.

i am from india.i have been masterbating for a long time im 22yrs 5feet 5inches high 64kilos.what my problem is that i can hav an orgasm as many times i want in a day by rubbing myself on a pillow in the sitting position.but during sex thats not possible.i just dont come during sex.after my partner finishes then i sit on a pillow and come.so please tell me what i should do about this and is it possible for me to come during sex.i feel depressed sometimes because of this.

your from India you ARE NOT SUPPOSE TO HAVE SEX BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED. well anyways if you are not cumming when you are having sex with your partner then he doesnt know how to please you. if he doesnt pay with your clit you should do it yourself because when your doing it with a pillow you know how to control the pillow and that is why you cum. well if he doesnt know how to please you get a new partner, but IF YOUR FROM INDIA THEN YOUR NOT SUPPOSE TO HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IM TELLING YOUR PARENTS!!!!!!

If you have sex while on your period can you still get pregnant? and if so what is the likely hood? Or if you use a condom?

i took a sex education class and yes you do get pregnant while on your period if you have sex. you could ask your doctor if you do not beleive me. i can also give you my teachers email address.

my best friend has bein with her boyfriend for 5 months rite they have had sex about 17 times...
He doesnt believe in using a condom,and they havent once. 4 times shes put me under pressure saying shes pregnet and i have bein with her through it no matter what. She lost the baby the last time and the last 3 times was jus a miss hab. But now you see its happeing again she she hasnt come on here periods 4 2 months and can feel movement in her womb what shall i do?? Shes only 14 and her mom will kill her but i think she wants to keep it Please help me!!

sorry to say this but your friend is stupid. if her boyfriend doesnt beleive in using a condom why doesnt she just go on birth control pills. tell her to take a pregnancy test and if its negative tell her to get on birth control pills!!!!! Damn she is only 14 that is so crazy. i think your sticking next to her side because your her friend but you need to tell her to be careful and to use protection!!!!

I'm on Birth Control. This pill can cause some weight gain, and on me it's added about 7 pounds. This isn't good for me, because I am already overweight. I'm 5'1, so even 1 pound shows on my body. It absolutely sucks. I start school early August, so I need help losing at least 10-15 pounds. Now, you can tell me to run, work out, etc, but I probably won't. I would prefer you give me a diet of 1,200 calories or less. Or even just things to eat, a list, idc. Any help will do, just don't tell me workout, because I won't, I'm lazy.

hey i hate working out also but you should go back to your doctor and tell him to change your birth control pill because thats the reason why your gaining weight. just tell the doctor whats going on and they cna give you a different pill and maybe that wont make you gain weight.

I'm 18 and I've been told plenty of times that I have the face of a 15-16 year old. I wear enough makeup to try to enhance my features, hoping I'll look my age, but I must be doing something wrong. Any specific makeup tips or techniques that you might suggest I try? (Ex: Stay away from any colors, etc)?

hey i think you should just use the color pink and purple as your eye shadow and just make it look natural. i am 20 about to be 21 and people say i look like im 16 but it dont let it bug me because i think of it this way when im like 50 i will look like im 40 or something you know what i mean. hope i helped you.

My 12 year old son has been bullied by a boy in our neighborhood for several years now. My son has a lot of friends, but of course all his friends are around his age and scared of the bully.

The bully (Gary) is 15. A few years ago my husband and I talked to Gary's parents, because he stole a toy from my son on the school bus. Gary claimed not to have the toy, and his parents protected him--and said we were in the wrong. This only child is perfect according to them. I have given up on going to the parents. The attitude of the police is "boys will be boys" (we live in a small town).

I caught Gary in the act a couple of weeks ago. He jumped on, and broke a ramp that my son and his friends built for their bikes. I told him he was acting like a 6 year old, and that someday someone bigger and meaner will come along and "take him out". He rode off on his bike in a hurry! However now he harasses my son about telling "Mommy". Last night he threw big rocks at my son's bike, causing some damage to paint. Apparently it even makes things worse if I interfear. Usually I do leave it to my son to settle disagreements, but this boy has crossed the line.

My 21 year old son, is 6'4, 240 lbs but If I use him to intimidate the 15 year old, this would be no different than a 15 year old picking on a 12 year old. Although...I doubt Gary has paid much attention to big brother. He'd probably be scared of him, we all know Gary is a coward in disguise.

My son does not want to walk away, because this means he would have to leave his other friends behind, plus he wants to "look tough" Any tips on dealing with a neighborhood bully?

I think you should have your son throw rocks at that 15 year olds bike so he would know how it feels. and you should send his parents a bill for the damamge he did to your son's bike and if i was you i would use the older brother to scare the 15 year old away he needs to be taught a lesson!!! tel lyour son to tell him what goes around comes around and one day what he did to him will happen to him and you will laugh all over his face!!! i hate bullies they make me so angry. i noticed that bullies always pick on younger kids then them because they know they really can't do anything. why dont you teach your son some karate lessons so he can beat that boys butt!!!!

I have had unprotected sex a lot and my boyfreind had accidentaly ejaculated inside me before quite a few times and while im on my period he always does because i've never gotten pregnant.. does this mean that i'll never get pregnant? is something wrong with me?

please help

hey i took a sex education class before and my teacher was telling me people think if they have unprotected sex while on their period they will not get pregnant that is not true you will get pregnant if you have unprotected sex while on your period. i guess you have just been getting lucky in the past. but that doesnt mean you will never get pregnant. dont worry about it everything will be ok

hi i'm 15 and i have a boyfriend my period is two days late but weve been having alot of sex a week but everytime he cums he takes it out and then i check the condumn and it isnt broken is my period cycle changing? i'm really worried but im sure im not preganant because we always had protection and never broke and we never did anything that could cause it so please write back ASAP!!!!!!

your period could be late if your eating diet has changed or if you been under alot of stress. if you been exercising that could case it to be late also. just dont worry about it if you still want to know take a pregnancy test.

Why is it always me that ends up with the no girlfriend at the end of the year I am 14/m and I am in a wheelchair and not sure if that is the problem or what but it has always seemed I end up not with the girlfriend and don't get me wrong I have had them but the last one I had was going on for 6 monthes but she just left me for one of my best friends and it was like a shocker to me and I just went into a deep depression

i think you should just give it some time girls will realize how nice of a guy you are. i dont think you should stress over it because you never know by the end of next school year you might have a new girlfriend that will last a long time. just don't think about it and give it some time. when time is right everything will go good for you.

ok this is very embarrasing but I am and girl but when i was born i was born with a penis..he doctor says im a girl cause i have boobs and i have periods...dont ask me how cause i really dont know how. When i have sex with boys do u think this will creep them out? and should i get my penis removed?

ANSWER BACK SOON!

hey i think you should talk this over with your doctor or someone at your home and see what they say. i personally think you should get it removed because you like guys and if you guys got in a position to do something and they saw it then they would freak out and it would be really embarrassing for you.

So there is this girl. I've seen her at this resturant for the past 2 years but never said a word to her because i'm so shy. We had a picnic this weekend and my mom's friends daughter came and with her was this girl.After the picnic I was told that she thought I was cute and such a nice person. So I was invited back to the apartment the next day of these 2 girls. We watched 2 movies and ate dinner othing big. So when I got home I text the girls friend and asked if this girl even likes me or what. I got in reply She does but wants nothing serious. How do I go about that? Do I still try to become close and hope more happens or what? Any help is thankful.

hey i think you should keep talking to her and hang out with her because you never know things might change between you guys and she might begin to like you like alot and want something serious between you guys. good luck!!!!!!

I'm a 16-year-old female and I was celebrating fourth of July with some of my friends last night without my boyfriend. Everyone was drinking and having a good time, and apparently I drank a little more than I should have and ended up calling his voicemail and breaking up with him. He didn't sleep all of last night, and I really love my boyfriend, I've told him that countless times, as well as that I'm sorry, so I don't know what else to say. Does anyone have any advice on what I could do to get him to forgive me?

hey dont worry everything will get better for you just relax and give him time because you really hurt him and he just needs to think things over. but do no stop calling him or dont let him think your not sorry because then he might think you dont care anymore. i think you should take him out for a candle light dinner and tell him your sorry. oh wait i think you should give him a rose and get on your knees and say sorry that will make him laugh( i think) but i just think he needs time to get over it cuz hes really really hurt. i hope everything gets better for you soon.

okay Like i mention before i haven't spoke to my ex for about 3 weeks now...well today he called me but only let it ring twice so i didn't get to answer it but i had my sister call back and he was actin so childish...he called again doing the same thing but insisting that he doesn't want anything...i didn't talk to him but if he should call and i answer wat should i do? Thanks in advance!

i think he just wants to let you know that he wants to talk to you. if he keeps calling you back try to play hard to get because that will make him want you even more. and tell him that his childish ways will not work with you and just try to stand up and don't let know him know your soft cuz he can take advantage of that.

i dont want to tell my doctor im sexualy active but i want birth control. i think im going to tell him my period has been going on for 15 days for the last times i had it and that i normally only get it for 5 days. or if i DO tell him i am sexualy active will he tell my mom or is it between me and him?

you can go to planned parenthood because they will not tell your parents anything and you can get birth control from them it is usually free or give them a donation. but i recommened you go to planned parenthood because the doctor might tell your mom if he knows your mom pretty well.

Is there any way i can make my hair lighter without highlighting or coloring?

you can put sun in, in your hair that should make it lighter but not really that ligheter but that helps. you can get that at walgreens or target.

Ok, so there's this guy that really likes me, we'll call him Joe. Joe is going out wiht my best friend we'll call Sarah. Well Joe dosen't even like Sarah and I have a boyfriend, but I like Joe a lot.
I like my boyfriend AND Joe.
Joe really likes me, like once, we almost kissed. We got close and then my cell phone rang.
My boyfriend is sweet and I love him to death, but I don't know what to do.
Like if I dump my boyfriend then go for it with Joe, Sara will hate me!
What to do what to do?

I'm just really confused. please help.

i think you should just stay with your boyfriend because you love him alot.i was in the same situtation once i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and there was a time in our relationship were i wanted to date someone else but then i realized that was just a "crush phase" i was going through and i just stuck with my boyfriend and things worked out perfectly fine. i suggest you stay with your boyfriend and let things go the way they are going. hope this helps

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